How many times have you cheated

[Plsez2]

On your current girlfriend? And anything pretty much can pass as cheating, so it's your call what you consider to be cheating.

Does she suspect it, will you constantly deny it or will you come clean eventually?

Who did you cheat with, what is your story since I'd say most of the chicks we date don't read or post here, tell us!

I cheated 2 times, told her one time (first time) second time was with a friend of hers and mine so I never told her then, basically because the other girl involved wanted it kept quiet.

 

[jet]

*****.

I always tell them I'm cheating on them and there's two things they can do about it:

-nothing
-and like it

 

[xpress]

Deny til you die...

Only tell her if you want to break up with her, because ALL trust will be lost...

(Everything I know about relationships, I learned from Entourage)

 

[Plsez2]

Originally Posted by jet

*****.


Hell yes, I am. Hurt her once be damned if I admit my inability to be a prick again.

Only good thing is the other person won't tell either because she feels as much guilt.

Both times cheating were drugs/alcohol related, not an excuse, just my reasoning.

 

[Plsez2]

Not if the thoughts have not been acted upon, then to me it's not cheating.

 

[Szeph el raton]

Only kissed another girl once while I was in a relationship... when I was 13. Gave me hell of a guilty feeling. Therefore as you can only wear one pair of shoes I also only stick to one woman. Been cheated on once too and that felt seriously fucked after I found out.

Guess I'm just not a manly man enough to concurrently make the whole female world happy.

Therefore I guess it comes down to
1.) being a sissy with a conscience and being faithful
2.) being a jerk without conscience and never ever tell your significant other

When it comes to cheating, lie if you don't want to break up anyway. xpress gets it to the point.

 

[Flambeur]

NEVER EVER EVER ******* tell your SO that you've cheated. That's something idiots do in high school. Keep it to yourself, and if you feel like **** about it, guess what, you deserve it.

All you're doing when you tell them is transfer your guilt onto them as grief. That's it.

You:

Honey, I cheated on you, blah blah blah.. Woo hoo, I feel so much better now that I told you, now we can start working on rebuilding the relationship.

SO:

How exactly does that help?

 

[Fuuma]

Originally Posted by Flambeur

NEVER EVER EVER ******* tell your SO that you've cheated. That's something idiots do in high school. Keep it to yourself, and if you feel like **** about it, guess what, you deserve it.

All you're doing when you tell them is transfer your guilt onto them as grief. That's it.

You:

Honey, I cheated on you, blah blah blah.. Woo hoo, I feel so much better now that I told you, now we can start working on rebuilding the relationship.

SO:

How exactly does that help?

The only people I've ever heard say that are serial cheaters...

 

[unjung]

If the relationship is already going downhill, take the time to send a text or quick phone call to end it, then do what you have to do. If that doesn't seem reasonable, pass.

 

[Neo_Version 7]

Last summer, I spent a night at my best friend's girl's house. It was just the two of us but nothing happened. Regardless, I felt pretty bad.

For what it's worth, hiding it is the more viable option.

 

[Fuuma]

Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7

Last summer, I spent a night at my best friend's girl's house. It was just the two of us but nothing happened. Regardless, I felt pretty bad.

For what it's worth, hiding it is the more viable option.

It's not worth anything, (probably fake) virgin.

 

[Neo_Version 7]

It didn't help matters when I spent the whole day with this girl on my lady_friend's birthday. Sure enough, word got out and she was understandably upset.

 

[Fuuma]

Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7

It didn't help matters when I spent the whole day with this girl on my lady_friend's birthday. Sure enough, word got out and she was understandably upset.

You don't have a ladyfriend.

 

[Neo_Version 7]

Originally Posted by Fuuma

You don't have a ladyfriend.

Hence the underscore.

 

[Fuuma]

Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7

Hence the underscore.

Hence the lack of justification for her being upset.