how many partners is far too many?

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  1. SoCal2NYC

    SoCal2NYC Fashion Hayzus

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    In my current relationship (when it started) my boyfriend was at 2 (I've helped him up that to about 10) and I was at probably 250.

    Any fights in our relationship aren't about a sexual past or lack of it.
     


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    So did she give you any insight into her lifestyle? A lot of this thread is speculation as to how she could have racked up those numbers in a relatively short amount of time given that recently she's been living a fairly normal sexual lifestyle. Was it rando after rando being pulled out of bars 4 nights a week, doing the swinger lifestyle, porn?
     


  3. antirabbit

    antirabbit Senior member

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    From what I can piece together, it was from highschool, didnt go to college.
    Did do the rave scene
    Otherwise several randoms every week for years.
     


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    Fulcannelli Senior member

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    she's playing mind games, does she seem very sly/manipulative....

    I'd have like to see the way she said it, my guess it was all nonchalant.

    I cannot imagine anyone who who would admit to this many...oh wait...Ill change that to a women would never admit to that many, she would know that it was very high in comparison to your average joe-anne.

    I would leave her anyway as she has either:

    a) been knee deep in guts for the majority of her life and been down with more men that the titanic
    b) or is a manipulative swine
     


  5. Manny Calavera

    Manny Calavera Senior member

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    After I made this comment, he said she had well over 300, and perhaps over 500 (how one doesnt know is odd on its own).
    I was stunned.
    However, he then went on to mention that she had only 10 in the past 5 years, and that in her highschool and post highschool days she had many many partners....which led to a couple of STD's and HPV.


    Oy. I think if I loved someone I could get over that but if he's merely trying to cultivate a relationship with this person then, yeah, that's tough.
     


  6. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    Get the fuck out of here!! What about a guy who had 500 partners at age 31, wouldn't he be a stud? She was just popular and into the sex, without more details there is nothing negative about that.

    Any guy with that many sexual partners also has psychological problems.
     


  7. itsstillmatt

    itsstillmatt The Liberator Dubiously Honored

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    Any guy with that many sexual partners also has psychological problems.
    Why? If you are single, and out with your friends, having sex with a random chick is always a better option than not doing so.
     


  8. Fuuma

    Fuuma Franchouillard Modasse

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    Why? If you are single, and out with your friends, having sex with a random chick is always a better option than not doing so.

    You're obviously unstable, I'm contacting the San Francisco "fun house" to have you treated. You'll be stuck with all those dangerous nymphos that have sex once a week, with *gasp*, different people!!

    BTW antirabbit's "friend" should watch chasing Amy.
     


  9. antirabbit

    antirabbit Senior member

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    There is a difference between a random partner here and there, but when it is pathalogical is where the problems start.
    Several hundred is pathalogical.
     


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    whacked Senior member

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    Why? If you are single, and out with your friends, having sex with a random chick is always a better option than not doing so.

    Agreed, and that applies to chicks as well.

    I say it depends on a person to person basis. And please don't reduce the girl down to a mere number and toss it around on the 'net like it were the over/under of today Yankees' game. It is only inevitable that the number was taken out of context (see below), and grew in multiples after each speculation a pissing party throws out...

    The math life_interrupts showed is quite eye-opening BTW, I never thought of it that way.
     


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    If we assume she started having sex at 16 and if I did my math correctly
    You're a generous man for a woman with 500+ partners. I know several girls who claim they lost it at 14 and 13 really isn't pushing it.

    He said she had well over 300, and perhaps over 500 (how one doesnt know is odd on its own).

    However, he then went on to mention that she had only 10 in the past 5 years, and that in her highschool and post highschool days she had many many partners....which led to a couple of STD's and HPV.

    A lot of you guys are very, very generous. I also think some of you are taking this is a very theoretical manner. 500+ different men, sometimes more than one at a time that aren't counted, STDs and HPV. Guy or girl, I will go the classy Fade to Black route and call that a Human Toilet.

    When I first hear the number I'm shocked but when I really consider it, it's not crazy. Maybe it's time spent at a state college, but I can imagine a girl going home with a new guy almost every night. Tuesday-Saturday were drinking days, take a guy most nights. Add that little high school anecdote above, voila.

    I wouldn't call it a deal breaker, but it certainly wouldn't be easy to deal with. I would laugh at my friend wildly and derisively and say don't do it unless you're a bigger man than I.

    Sounds like she has a sexual addiction, possibly a past life in porn... or at one point a Pimp named Slickback. [​IMG]
    Niggah! Are you deaf?! Mah name is A.PIMP.NAMED.SLICK.BACK!
     


  12. itsstillmatt

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    You're obviously unstable, I'm contacting the San Francisco "fun house" to have you treated. You'll be stuck with all those dangerous nymphos that have sex once a week, with *gasp*, different people!!

    BTW antirabbit's "friend" should watch chasing Amy.


    Perhaps the scariest thing about this girl is that she didn't have them coming back for more than one time. Maybe, even with all the practice, the skills aren't there.
     


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    My first thought was that she was involved in some sort of escort/call girl deal. But, that doesn't seem to be the case. You'd be surprised how many late teen/twenty somethings are involved in escorting on the side (and I mean girls that girl to very good schools - ivys, etc.).

    From what I can piece together, it was from highschool, didnt go to college.
    Did do the rave scene
    Otherwise several randoms every week for years.


    But, this sounds like she was really messed up for a while. At 31, those kinds of old issues are still probably festering inside of her. I would say tread lightly with someone like her.
     


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    Run.....run Fast......run Your Ass Off Fast
     


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    Just reading about her makes my pee burn.

    To better judge I need to clarify whether the five hundred represent five hundred separate experiences or perhaps 5 experiences with 100 guys each time.
     


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