Ok, So I just called my friend. To clarify, she may be well over 500 and just doesnt remember: Obviously it would be hard to have total recall of over 500 sexual encounters. Apparently, there is more to it. Again, she estimates 500+ She doesnt count when there were multiple men at the same time, and doesnt count women. Sorry, I could not get past that. Also, she has changed the profile of what kind of guy she goes for. She likes the polished professional type now. In the past it was the heavy metal guy, or the WWF/Ultimate fighting type of guy. These details make the picture worse.... So, essentially, there is no novelty in a sexual relationship with someone like this, no newness, no freshness. I find that sad. I'd ask how many times she has been air-tight and judge by that. man iammatt...i don't usually do this, but i gotta say that i hope when i reach your age i can let go of things as well as you have. respect. Thanks, although I have never practiced what I preach, since my wife and I met in our early twenties. I think the point is that the future is what matters, and it is better to judge that by recent history than years long past. I am sure I would feel uncomfortable at first, but eventually, 40 years of a great relationship are more important.