how many partners is far too many?

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  1. the neon fruit supermaket

    the neon fruit supermaket Active Member

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    get the fuck outta here. she has had hundreds of men and a few STDs.
    Your friend is a loser to even think about it. That chick is low quality.
    Throw that off the shelf.



    Any none high school/college slut can make it to her twenties with under 10 dudes under her belt. And 10 dudes is a lot for international standards. The U.S seems to tolarate a much larger number than other parts of the world. That sucks, cause I would want a girl with character and those are usually not sluts.


    Wow. Let me guess, your getting a degree in Women Studies with a minor in Feminism studies. Right?
     


  2. antirabbit

    antirabbit Senior member

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    You really think he should not tell her, that he feels that triple digits (perhaps 500+) is just too many for him?
    She asked him if he was not comfortable with that.
    He said he needed to think about it. So I am sure that will be a near term conversation.
     


  3. the neon fruit supermaket

    the neon fruit supermaket Active Member

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    She cant change that. It happened, its in the past. That may not be who she is now, you know, all the "low quality" that she can be.
     


  4. Clench Million

    Clench Million Senior member

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    The more I think about this the more I wonder if this girl just has zero counting abilities. You know, like the kind of person who sees a crowd of 1000 people and thinks its 10,000?

    If we assume she started having sex at 16 and if I did my math correctly, 500 partners would mean she found a new sexual partner every 10 days. That is pretty crazy unless she was a porn actress. Did she never have any long term relationships in that span? Because if so that would push it even further. A new partner every 5 days or something.
     


  5. Clench Million

    Clench Million Senior member

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    She cant change that. It happened, its in the past. That may not be who she is now, you know, all the "low quality" that she can be.

    I don't care about "low quality" here, but if she truly has had 500 partners by age 31, that would imply some serious psychological problems in my book. I'd be less worried about her being a slut than being totally mixed up upstairs.
     


  6. antirabbit

    antirabbit Senior member

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    Yeah, as he told me, she has had 2 ltr in the past 6 years, which takes 5 years off the day between partner equation.
    Wow, now that I think about it, that is just chilling to think about.
    A seriously fucked up lass for at least 1/3 of her life.
    It will be hard to market ones self for a serious ltr with a quality guy.
     


  7. the neon fruit supermaket

    the neon fruit supermaket Active Member

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    I don't care about "low quality" here, but if she truly has had 500 partners by age 31, that would imply some serious psychological problems in my book. I'd be less worried about her being a slut than being totally mixed up upstairs.
    I agree w/ you. I pretty much said the same thing in my first post. The "low quality" is a dig at BP. As he feels that a woman who sleeps with over ten men is unredeemable.
     


  8. blackplatano

    blackplatano Senior member

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    Wow. Let me guess, your getting a degree in Women Studies with a minor in Feminism studies. Right?

    If feminism is an excuse for women to be sluts then fuck em'. literally and figuratively.
     


  9. vinouspleasure

    vinouspleasure Senior member

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    My reaction would be:
    - tell your friend to get an hiv test asap
    - tell your friend to run
    - get her phone number

    Once you get her phone number, if you could just pm it to me...

    There's this number thing where you ask a person to calculate a number, one of the factors is sexual partners, they tell you the final number and then you can back into the number of sex partners. I did this with my friend and his number was 7. He did it that evening with his wife, and the number was 39....not a great moment for him and for some reason, his wife wasn't all too pleased with me.

    I think the real answer to your friends question is "whats too many for him?". I would never, ever answer his question or give advice here. You tell him to run, he marries her, you can probably write off your friendship. You tell him its ok, he marries her, she sleeps with another 500 guys, your friendship is probably over. Tell him your not sure what you'd do, but you'll support him, whatever he decides...
     


  10. JamesT

    JamesT Senior member

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    You said she was in Chicago, right?

    I think I was no. 196.
     


  11. JoeWoah

    JoeWoah Senior member

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    The more I think about this the more I wonder if this girl just has zero counting abilities. You know, like the kind of person who sees a crowd of 1000 people and thinks its 10,000?

    She'd have to be retarded... and I think we ruled that out.

    No, she has "issues" that your buddy should stay far away from. Besides, the dichotomy between these two when it comes to sex, relationships, etc... just screams trouble.
     


  12. The Wayfarer

    The Wayfarer Senior member

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    For me personally, there's no way. While I like a sense of innocence in a woman, I don't want a chaste virgin either. I like a girl who knows how to fuck, but at the same time, I don't want to see every guy in a restaurant or bar eying her with a look of carnal familiarity.

    One nighters or short-lived flings are one thing, but as far as a relationship is concerned, I would not commit to a woman who has been with a significant number of partners more than me.
     


  13. uNotAzFreshAzImIz

    uNotAzFreshAzImIz Senior member

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    for a guy thats called thinking with your dik ..
    for a female thats called being a smutbag ..



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  14. tiecollector

    tiecollector Senior member

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    I'd tell your friend hell no.

    I can't bring myself to do the deed with chicks I'm not really into and I'm a male. For females, I think it takes more of a commitment of some sort due to the physiology and different psychology. So if a chick has been with that many, yikes.

    I'd prefer single digits at this point, but I don't think it exists. I'd rather just not know.

    If your friend does stay with her, tell him to buy her a nice, sturdy belt
     


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    I think I'm with tiecollector on this one. I definitely aim for single digits in # former partners from the ladies, and any std is automatic dismissal.
     


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