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how many partners is far too many?

Discussion in 'Health & Body' started by antirabbit, Apr 24, 2008.

  1. antirabbit

    antirabbit Senior member

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    Yeah, as he told me, she has had 2 ltr in the past 6 years, which takes 5 years off the day between partner equation.
    Wow, now that I think about it, that is just chilling to think about.
    A seriously fucked up lass for at least 1/3 of her life.
    It will be hard to market ones self for a serious ltr with a quality guy.
     
  2. the neon fruit supermaket

    the neon fruit supermaket Active Member

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    I don't care about "low quality" here, but if she truly has had 500 partners by age 31, that would imply some serious psychological problems in my book. I'd be less worried about her being a slut than being totally mixed up upstairs.
    I agree w/ you. I pretty much said the same thing in my first post. The "low quality" is a dig at BP. As he feels that a woman who sleeps with over ten men is unredeemable.
     
  3. blackplatano

    blackplatano Senior member

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    Wow. Let me guess, your getting a degree in Women Studies with a minor in Feminism studies. Right?

    If feminism is an excuse for women to be sluts then fuck em'. literally and figuratively.
     
  4. vinouspleasure

    vinouspleasure Senior member

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    My reaction would be:
    - tell your friend to get an hiv test asap
    - tell your friend to run
    - get her phone number

    Once you get her phone number, if you could just pm it to me...

    There's this number thing where you ask a person to calculate a number, one of the factors is sexual partners, they tell you the final number and then you can back into the number of sex partners. I did this with my friend and his number was 7. He did it that evening with his wife, and the number was 39....not a great moment for him and for some reason, his wife wasn't all too pleased with me.

    I think the real answer to your friends question is "whats too many for him?". I would never, ever answer his question or give advice here. You tell him to run, he marries her, you can probably write off your friendship. You tell him its ok, he marries her, she sleeps with another 500 guys, your friendship is probably over. Tell him your not sure what you'd do, but you'll support him, whatever he decides...
     
  5. JamesT

    JamesT Senior member

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    You said she was in Chicago, right?

    I think I was no. 196.
     
  6. JoeWoah

    JoeWoah Senior member

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    The more I think about this the more I wonder if this girl just has zero counting abilities. You know, like the kind of person who sees a crowd of 1000 people and thinks its 10,000?

    She'd have to be retarded... and I think we ruled that out.

    No, she has "issues" that your buddy should stay far away from. Besides, the dichotomy between these two when it comes to sex, relationships, etc... just screams trouble.
     
  7. The Wayfarer

    The Wayfarer Senior member

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    For me personally, there's no way. While I like a sense of innocence in a woman, I don't want a chaste virgin either. I like a girl who knows how to fuck, but at the same time, I don't want to see every guy in a restaurant or bar eying her with a look of carnal familiarity.

    One nighters or short-lived flings are one thing, but as far as a relationship is concerned, I would not commit to a woman who has been with a significant number of partners more than me.
     
  8. uNotAzFreshAzImIz

    uNotAzFreshAzImIz Senior member

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    for a guy thats called thinking with your dik ..
    for a female thats called being a smutbag ..



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  9. tiecollector

    tiecollector Senior member

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    I'd tell your friend hell no.

    I can't bring myself to do the deed with chicks I'm not really into and I'm a male. For females, I think it takes more of a commitment of some sort due to the physiology and different psychology. So if a chick has been with that many, yikes.

    I'd prefer single digits at this point, but I don't think it exists. I'd rather just not know.

    If your friend does stay with her, tell him to buy her a nice, sturdy belt
     
  10. jkennett

    jkennett Senior member

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    I think I'm with tiecollector on this one. I definitely aim for single digits in # former partners from the ladies, and any std is automatic dismissal.
     
  11. X-It

    X-It Senior member

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    3 digits is way too many for a man or a woman.

    I say 1 digit and less than 5 is perfect.
     
  12. The_Game07

    The_Game07 Senior member

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    My girl = 15 and she is 24.
    I can deal with this, just, but over 300 = SLAG

    Although, she may have just been a freak in her early days and has matured since then.

    Then again, as Churchill once said ''Once a freak, always a freak...''. Was it Churchill? lol
     
  13. Fade to Black

    Fade to Black Senior member

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    3 digits is way too many for a man or a woman.

    +1...that's insane, but like dude said ol' girl's gotta have some kind of self esteem issues if she's got into all that with no other motive except doin it
     
  14. mmhollis

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    That's completely unacceptable, 300! She HAD to be a 'star' or in a 'lifestyle!' ...and did anyone else notice this chick has std'S AND HPV?
     
  15. Fade to Black

    Fade to Black Senior member

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    after a certain point i don't think labels like 'porn rock star' are even applicable, more so if she's not in the industry. at that level one is basically a human toilet.
     
  16. tiecollector

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    after a certain point i don't think labels like 'porn rock star' are even applicable, more so if she's not in the industry. at that level one is basically a human toilet.

    Or a cumdumpster at least.
     
  17. Fade to Black

    Fade to Black Senior member

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    yeah i thought about writing cum dumpster instead but i thought it might get me a conne-style timeout so i went with 'human toilet', sounds more polite.
     
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    Is it possible that she is lying? Maybe she doesn't want to be with a man who would think less of her after a certain number.
     
  19. Fade to Black

    Fade to Black Senior member

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    what, you're implying the number might be even higher? LOL...i'm fascinated by that idea and genuinely want to understand the psychology of some of these people but i'm sure if i dealt with a woman like that i would not be able to eat in her presence.
     
  20. tiecollector

    tiecollector Senior member

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    Is it possible that she is lying? Maybe she doesn't want to be with a man who would think less of her after a certain number.

    If anything, double or triple that number because women always lie on the small side.
     

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