I trust in the general expetise of this forum even in most important matters: How to tell a girl you love her... So, there's this girl I know and we did some things together (such as sipping champagne in the park) and like each other et al. I figured this was the time to lay my cards on the table and tell her that I love her. So, that's the plan: I got some excellent hand-made paper in a subtle white/beige, got out my fountain pen and put her first name on the front, my name on the back of the envelope (in cursive, of course). In the letter I'll invite her to a picknick (enclose a praline I got in Strasbourg yesterday and tell her there's more to come) and tell her to meet me at a nice spot in the park (close to both of us). From there we'll walk to an old bunker in the park with a flat roof that has a ladder on the back. To get up to the ladder and around the fence closing it off I'll place a ladder in a bush. I'll then get the ladder out so we can get up to the roof of the bunker. There I'll lay out a blanket to sit on, get out the rest of the pralines from France, pop open a bottle of champagne/ sparkling wine or get her a cold white wine (her preference). Once we get around the second of awkward moment I'll wait for the sunset (21:42 for about 16 minutes), get out the iPod. I'll tell her to listen to the one song 'Sheepdog' from Mando Diao ("Dont know why I cant locate this feeling, that I would rather be with you It makes no sense, your crying out loud, that I may love you This stress is wasting my emotions that I would rather be with you Dont let them closer to this secret... that I may love you"). In that time I get out a cholcolade rose that has a marzipan heart on the bottom (half sphere made of a lighter chocolade) and look at her. I'll have letter with my feelings in my jacket (so she has something to read at home...). Let's see: adventure (you're surely not supposed to climb on old bunkers), romance (song, rose from France, sunset), good food (I was thinking about taking her out somewhere first as it would be a little late to show up somewhere otherwise [meet at around nine thirty in the evening]- OPINIONS?). Did I miss any important part in the equation? Let's say I think this is the stuff that usually belongs in girls magazines... let's fulfill her this girly dream. Please tell me what you think and whether you belive this works or not. If I get any advice that really helps me I'll make a contribution to some good cause- so tell me your secrets and I'll donate or volunteer to work for some good cause!