I am looking for a shirt to wear to a wedding shower for my fiancee' and me on Sat. night (a "stock the bar" shower given by my groomsmen). As the event is a "trendy formal" event (complete with bartender, pianist, and catering) I thought that I would find something different. So, I go try on some new Paul Smith shirts and the saleperson trys to convince me that the latest trend is a high collar (one that has 3 buttons on the collar). It looked plain awful. Has anyone else seen this look? Any ideas, comments, concerns, etc.?