I could really use some help with my hair. My scalp is extremely dry, as is my hair. It is also very thick/coarse, has a lot of split ends, and frizzes like you would not believe. 10 minutes after I take a shower, my hair is poofing out everywhere. It is relatively short because I fear growing it out with how dry/frizzy it gets. Can anyone recommend a routine and or products to help me get this under control? I've tried the basics like head & shoulders, etc.... but they don't do anything.