i recently purchased a black leather Dunhill ADV8 tote bag. Does it look gay for a guy to carry this bag? http://www.dunhill.com/en-es/catalog...s/adv8/l3g260a I am 6ft tall, 200 pounds rugby guy. I am not gay. I am married with a baby. I always wanted to buy a tote as i really like the design. I carry the bag on the weekends with the strap thrown over my shoulders. I am afraid to just carry the bag in my hands as i am worried it would look like a handbag. I am afraid to carry the bag to the office as i am worried how my colleagues will take to it. What do you guys think?