If she comes to the party and I makeout with her, do I win? But in any case I still feel that I dont know her too well and her tastes to specifically know is she my type for a relationship. Friend-zone is fine for me if it includes the occasional making out and sechs. There have been times though where I see that shes willing to go out again, I just see it. When I asked her to go out to the party next weekend, she said she'll see since her cousin + friend is coming but then she asked me to recommend a club for her cousin and his wife, showing some evidence of not being with them. Also, she has made some indirect indications on wanting to go somewhere sometime which I will plan to kindly bring up when I talk to her vis-a-vis tomorrow. Also, after her being at my place, we have this stupid lame ass thing going on about water since I gave her water that she didnt like so much and blamed me for not having better brands (playfully of course). Yesterday I gave her a photo of me having her favorite brand and as I had invited her to the party next weekend, she asked me also whether I had a lot of her favorite water - indication of after the party her coming to my place again?? Its mainly all play but I regret the fact that its hard to keep the connection alive when I see her in class unless I significantly stop her or something which I fear would backfire if she isnt interested in me and will make me look desperate in the end. I definitely agree with you guys to some extent, though I feel that these next days up to Saturday will be make-or-break time. If not, then yes, move on. Reason for me not finishing it off now is because I am still having hopes on that party.