Matt
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in a lot of ways it doesn't matter, but just make it fun. If youre broke, take her to a ******* playground and push her on the swings. Hell, I'm 33 and recently enough took a girl to a ball-crawl in a coffee shop playroom and had a blast rolling around, pelting each other with the balls and throwing small children around. Take her to a climbing wall. Gokarting. Who cares? Something fun. Follow that with coffee, and then you have something to talk about.
I do tend to follow the iPUA advice about bouncing girls around on dates, it does tend to lead them to a false sense of shared experience...so keep her somewhere for like 30 mins, then elsewhere, 30 mins, then elsewhere....works for me cos in two hours, you have done a bunch, shared a bunch, had a bunch of fun, and now have a bunch to talk about.
But make your intentions clear early kiddo. You're not her sister, and don't let her treat you like one...and don't be scared of the phrase "I'm not your ******* sister"...
I do tend to follow the iPUA advice about bouncing girls around on dates, it does tend to lead them to a false sense of shared experience...so keep her somewhere for like 30 mins, then elsewhere, 30 mins, then elsewhere....works for me cos in two hours, you have done a bunch, shared a bunch, had a bunch of fun, and now have a bunch to talk about.
But make your intentions clear early kiddo. You're not her sister, and don't let her treat you like one...and don't be scared of the phrase "I'm not your ******* sister"...