So my girl of a year and change broke it off with me. Long story short: I love this girl and would rather enjoy spending many more years in her company. Many of you are wise and married or in long-term relationships, so hopefully you may have some advice for this situation. It's really been getting to me to the point that basic day-to-day functions are suffering considerably. Any help is much appreciated. I'm 20 and she's 19, so it could be chalked up to stupid youthful naivete. I'm well aware of that. But at the same time I cannot deny my instincts and my emotions, and I feel as though I would really be dropping the ball if I were to let this one get away.