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Get back with a bad ex to get back at the guy she's with?

blackplatano

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My friend just asked me for advise...didn't know what to tell him.

He broke up with a long time girlfriend last summer because he got the impression that she was cheating on him and started acting shady. He then had serious problems with the guy she was talking to and possibly cheating with (after the breakup). He then still sleeped with his ex a few times for the following few months. They stopped seen each other completely for basically all of 2009.

Unfortunately, they recently bumped into each other and started talking again. She wants to get back. She also says she has not slept with anybody since they broke up. However, she is basically dating the guy my friend hates. She says they only kiss. He knows for a FACT they have fucked...


So he asked me...

Should he

A) expose her as a "worthless hoe"?

B) Go out with her so she can dump the guy, thus getting his revenge and then dumping her for the double win?

C) Do nothing.

D) Other
 

Mark from Plano

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I voted "Other."

What he should do is this: get the eff over it. Moveon.org
 

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The best plan of attack is to Jody/Sanchos her AZZ, also known as ******* her while she's still with the other guy. That way he helps her damage her integrity, and he makes the other kid feel like ****. Make a video of it then UPS it to the place her current boyfriend works at.
 

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Other:

She's a manipulative liar and your "friend" sounds like food, nuff said.
 

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OK I am something of an expert in ex-dilemmas at the moment....since my gf's ex acts like someone took his dolly away, and my ex just ran off with my friend.

The correct answer to this is....Do Nothing. Just be completely ******* cool to everyone involved. Be The Bigger Person Here. Everyone around will notice it.

He already has a complex about you[r friend] - that **** is preprogrammed into dudes, can't help it. He hates his milk brother...but yet his milk brother says hi every time he sees him.

She will want you[r friend] more cos you[r friend] is so <insert woman noise here>

This will further drive sworn mortal enemy/new bf crazy.
 

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Um

This sounds like the sort of thing that could induce instant karmic retribution. And I have a policy of keeping ******* as far away from instant karmic retribution as possible, just in case it takes one of many embarassing, sexually transmitted forms. This is particularly the case when the girl involved is both dishonest and promiscuous. I shall therefore promote my policy re: your friend.
 

blackplatano

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I already have a girlfriend guys, it isn't me. But I know the risk of staring a thread about a "friend" lol
Saw it coming. Have at it.



BTW.

JD: That's also the first thing I told him, specially since he had a STD scare not even a month ago.



P.S it's relevant to note that he is a stereotypical jock. Gets girls, acts alpha around other men and feels like a ***** if he does nothing.
 

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Originally Posted by blackplatano
P.S it's relevant to note that he is a stereotypical jock. Gets girls, acts alpha around other men and feels like a ***** if he does nothing.

Whats the provocation in this scenario that he feels a reaction is necessary? From what I've read he was manipulated, lied to, and cheated on and he's now considering round two, right? Where's the General Akbar gif again?
 

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i don;t understand men who want to **** women who are ******* someone else. that's gross
 

blackplatano

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Originally Posted by r...
Whats the provocation in this scenario that he feels a reaction is necessary? From what I've read he was manipulated, lied to, and cheated on and he's now considering round two, right? Where's the General Akbar gif again?


Yea, basically...

He mostly hates the other guy so much that he wants to use this as a revenge. He thinks taking her back would humiliate the other guy and dumping her afterwards would humiliate her.




Originally Posted by thekunk07
i don;t understand men who want to **** women who are ******* someone else. that's gross

+1000




P.S lol I wanted to vote for C so I don't have to click "view results" every time I check the thread and mistakingly voted B. Results are now compromised.
 

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Originally Posted by blackplatano
Yea, basically...

He mostly hates the other guy so much that he wants to use this as a revenge. He thinks taking her back would humiliate the other guy and dumping her afterwards would humiliate her.






+1000




P.S lol I wanted to vote for C so I don't have to click "view results" every time I check the thread and mistakingly voted B. Results are now compromised.


Originally Posted by TyCooN
The best plan of attack is to Jody/Sanchos her AZZ, also known as ******* her while she's still with the other guy. That way he helps her damage her integrity, and he makes the other kid feel like ****. Make a video of it then UPS it to the place her current boyfriend works at.
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Originally Posted by blackplatano
Yea, basically... He mostly hates the other guy so much that he wants to use this as a revenge. He thinks taking her back would humiliate the other guy and dumping her afterwards would humiliate her.
A: This plan is so embarrassingly myopic I can put money on it not working out this way. B: If she is planning on leaving her chump for your chump then she thinks he's bitchmade. Shes prolly right. The best revenge is always to live well. Get a better woman, be happy, burn then both.
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Originally Posted by thekunk07
i don;t understand men who want to **** women who are ******* someone else. that's gross
Isn't this the entire premise of pornography?

Never thought of it that way. I feel implicitly gross now. ******.
 

whodini

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Originally Posted by thekunk07
i don;t understand men who want to **** women who are ******* someone else. that's gross
Not to derail but what's the cooling period with something like that? A few days without a banging? A couple of weeks? A year?
 

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