FidelCashflow
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For all you struggling students out there, how do you feel about friends who are better of than you? Are you indifferent to your friends having more money than you and being able to afford whatever they like, does it bother you deep down despite you hanging out with them? Do you consider it unnecessarily showy? Do you with they would give you some? Do you wish they would just stop talking about it and try not to let it show? Do you wish they would just be honest about it and not patronizing?
I ask because I have a friend who's trying to make it on his own, and I hang out with him alot, but I'm on easy street right now. I remember picking him up once so we could go see a movie, and before that I went to get fitted for a suit. After we left the store he said "whoa... you just spent a few months worth of my rent on a suit." I try to look out for him as best I can and help him keep his spirits up. A week ago he wanted to come with me to a ball hockey tournament I was going to, but he didnt have proper gym clothes, so we zipped by the mall and I brought him some track pants and a pair of adidas shoes.
Sometimes I worry I might be rubbing people the wrong way and making them feel bad (but not you guys
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I ask because I have a friend who's trying to make it on his own, and I hang out with him alot, but I'm on easy street right now. I remember picking him up once so we could go see a movie, and before that I went to get fitted for a suit. After we left the store he said "whoa... you just spent a few months worth of my rent on a suit." I try to look out for him as best I can and help him keep his spirits up. A week ago he wanted to come with me to a ball hockey tournament I was going to, but he didnt have proper gym clothes, so we zipped by the mall and I brought him some track pants and a pair of adidas shoes.
Sometimes I worry I might be rubbing people the wrong way and making them feel bad (but not you guys