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Flirty Co-Worker

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I have an attractive co-worker who flirts with me and does things to drive me nuts including:

1) Telling me one day she is not wearing a bra
2) Asking me to drive her home after work one day, then changing to go out, asking me if I see any panty lines, and then telling me she is not wearing any underwear under a relatively short skirt
3) Same night applying skin cream right in front of me well up her legs
4) Nearly sitting on my lap in my office when I needed her to look at something on my computer screen
5) Telling me very sexually explicit information about what she likes and does not like
6) Has suggested we should share a suite (2 bedrooms) at the company retreat
7) She set me up with a friend of hers, assumed we slept together then told me she is better in bed than her friend.

The list could go on with other minor items.

A few notes to consider
1) we work for a small firm (30 employees)
2) she is lower than me in the food chain, but in a different section so we never directly work together
3) she is 10 years younger than I am (she is in her mid twenties)

What would you do and if the answer is to "not dip the pen in the company ink", how would you nicely tell her to tone things down?
 

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Oh shit dude good luck with this one. I'm reminded of Seinfeld with Jerry's brain playing chess against his dick.
 

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Except for working for the same company, is there any reason you don't want to ( or shouldn't) boff her?
 

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Enjoy the attention and the show. Don't tell her to tone things down. Don't dip the pen in the company ink. Is her friend hot? If so, hit that regularly. When you start looking for a new job or if she goes to a new job, make a move.
 

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Does she do this with anyone else or is her attention directed solely at you?

She probably just wants to sleep with you, but there's always that razor-thin chance she'll use this against you somehow and it will all blow up in your face and you won't be able to avoid her at work because your office isn't large.
 

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Oh, by all means let her continue and reciprocate if you don't mind the imminent sexual harrassment charges, subsequent dismissal, and career ruination.

To turn her away? Since you're older and higher up the chain, you might try shifting your interactions towards a mentoring role. It won't work immediately but if you take control of your encounters you'll eventually change her mind-set towards you and it should settle down.
 

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Originally Posted by Milhouse
Enjoy the attention and the show. Don't tell her to tone things down. Don't dip the pen in the company ink. Is her friend hot? If so, hit that regularly. When you start looking for a new job or if she goes to a new job, make a move.

+1....Except for company sponsored holiday parties...anything that occurs while your drunk and stupid at these events is fair game.
 

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Originally Posted by Brian278
She probably just wants to sleep with you, but there's always that razor-thin chance she'll use this against you somehow and it will all blow up in your face and you won't be able to avoid her at work because your office isn't large.
I'd echo this, except saying that the chance of shit blowing up in your face is much greater. Think about it, realistically. How many times you'll get to fuck her before it's all over. Then, there's gonna be drama in the office. Are you willing to risk your job over some poontang? Like said before, keep hooking up with her friends. She'll go insane while this is happening. And then, when you or her leaves the company, you can fuck her brains out.
 

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I have to agree with Thomas in this case. Usually I'd say go for it, but the simple fact that she's throwing it to you so hard makes the situation a little sketchy. If she were a little more subtle about it I'd feel a more comfortable with moving forward. She may, in that case, be a little more likely to stay cool once it's all over. If it starts off with a bang, it will surely end with one.

Just sit back, let her sweat it out, and enjoy the attention. If nothing else, it will raise your social value with the other, more level-headed females in the office.
 

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Originally Posted by DarkNWorn
I'd echo this, except saying that the chance of shit blowing up in your face is much greater. Think about it, realistically. How many times you'll get to fuck her before it's all over. Then, there's gonna be drama in the office. Are you willing to risk your job over some poontang? Like said before, keep hooking up with her friends. She'll go insane while this is happening. And then, when you or her leaves the company, you can fuck her brains out.

+1.
 

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This could be a good thread topic:

What Did Doink's Flirty Co-Worker Do/Say Today?
 

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Originally Posted by acidicboy
This could be a good thread topic: What Did Doink's Flirty Co-Worker Do/Say Today?
Conne would've made a dumb thread about this weeks ago. Except that this is not the kind of thing that would ever happen to him (unless it was a effeminate male young dem intern).
 

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Originally Posted by DarkNWorn
I'd echo this, except saying that the chance of shit blowing up in your face is much greater. Think about it, realistically. How many times you'll get to fuck her before it's all over. Then, there's gonna be drama in the office. Are you willing to risk your job over some poontang? Like said before, keep hooking up with her friends. She'll go insane while this is happening. And then, when you or her leaves the company, you can fuck her brains out.

So what you're saying is that the real question is, how hot is she?
 

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