bvbellomo
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I have 2 suits. A black suit my mother bought me in the 1990's (still fits but is starting to fall apart) and a gray suit each groomsmen got for my brother's wedding. My hair is a little grayer than either picture (but still comes across as black), and I've lost a little weight - but I basically look the same and expect both trends to continue (I won't lose enough weight to alter the fit of a suit, but my face might not look as full).
I am about a year away from a PhD in Computer Science, which means interviews as a Professor, which is much more serious than my past interviews as a software developer (wearing a suit while interviewed by future coworkers in t-shirts). I am also single, and like to look nice for a more formal date - although that is much less popular now.
I feel I should own a nice suit. I found a reasonably priced bespoke shop with great reviews, but I'd hate to even check it out with absolutely no idea what I want. And this is not a process I want to rush.
Lots of advice on the Internet, but as usual, it is contradictory. Should people with medium skin buy medium tones to match? Or go very light or very dark for contrast? Grey, navy or blue with black hair starting to go gray? Or warm colors with brown eyes? Should people who only own 1 nice suit own black? Or should everyone avoid black except at funerals?
I don't wear a suit often, so I'd rather own only 1 or 2. And something that fits well is more important than nice fabric - fit is obvious to everyone, but few people can tell the difference between cheap and expensive fabric. I have no idea how much to spend - and I don't want to tell a salesman that. I want to spend as little as possible without fabric falling apart or looking cheap.
I am about a year away from a PhD in Computer Science, which means interviews as a Professor, which is much more serious than my past interviews as a software developer (wearing a suit while interviewed by future coworkers in t-shirts). I am also single, and like to look nice for a more formal date - although that is much less popular now.
I feel I should own a nice suit. I found a reasonably priced bespoke shop with great reviews, but I'd hate to even check it out with absolutely no idea what I want. And this is not a process I want to rush.
Lots of advice on the Internet, but as usual, it is contradictory. Should people with medium skin buy medium tones to match? Or go very light or very dark for contrast? Grey, navy or blue with black hair starting to go gray? Or warm colors with brown eyes? Should people who only own 1 nice suit own black? Or should everyone avoid black except at funerals?
I don't wear a suit often, so I'd rather own only 1 or 2. And something that fits well is more important than nice fabric - fit is obvious to everyone, but few people can tell the difference between cheap and expensive fabric. I have no idea how much to spend - and I don't want to tell a salesman that. I want to spend as little as possible without fabric falling apart or looking cheap.