My daughter is getting married in SoCal in late November. The groom and his party are all wearing tuxes (white jackets / black pants). The groom is supposedly wearing a top hat as well. On top of this, there is supposedly a 'Gatsby' theme happening. I am not amused… My preference would be to wear a light grey / silver two-piece suit with a white shirt and navy tie with brown shoes. Actually if I could get away with it there's a light grey herringbone sport coat I'd love to build an ensemble around but I'm concerned it won't be dressy enough. So it appears my options are: 1. Go with the light grey suit as described above 2. Get the light grey herringbone sport coat and perhaps wear with a charcoal pant / best combo 3. Suck it up and wear some hideous tux I'll never wear again Very open to suggestions – thanks for the help, fellas!