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F#*king ex-gf

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+1 on this advice....


"Don't reduce yourself into getting angry over this. Simply move on from the girl and realize your best friend is no longer your best friend. Just another guy you're friends with and you can't trust as far as you can throw. No need for deep animosity life is too short."
 

montecristo#4

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I would express enthusiasm about the ex to the best friend. Tell him she gave the best analingus you have ever had, and that he will love it when it's his turn to be on the receiving end. Describe it in detail.

Then he won't date her.
 

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Originally Posted by Caboose
and yes its a soppy (highschool) relationship thing
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so much for the bros before hoes thing


I suddenly realize just how old and distanced (generationally, speaking) I am from our high schoolers. Geez, it seems like only yesterday.

Sorry, no advice from me - it wouldn't fit you.

Maybe a tip though - the world, the real one outside your seemingly ginormous world of friends and school, is unfathomably larger than what you think it is now. None of this situation will matter or probably even be relevant to you in a few short years. In other words: don't sweat anything, and just have fun while you can.
 

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You do realize they planned this dont you?

2 mos, just enough time to give the impression it was 'just something that happened'. Dont be surprised if you find out he was hitting it before the breakup. And they didnt just start dating eachother, the just kept it quiet for a while.

Hope that makes you feel better.

By the way, its HS, it was never serious, you just think it was.
 

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Originally Posted by razl
I suddenly realize just how old and distanced (generationally, speaking) I am from our high schoolers. Geez, it seems like only yesterday.

Sorry, no advice from me - it wouldn't fit you.

Maybe a tip though - the world, the real one outside your seemingly ginormous world of friends and school, is unfathomably larger than what you think it is now. None of this situation will matter or probably even be relevant to you in a few short years. In other words: don't sweat anything, and just have fun while you can.


omg youre soooo cool!
 

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Originally Posted by Mark from Plano
In the words of the great English philosopher Mick Jagger "Girls will come and go, they're just like streetcars."

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Originally Posted by Mr. Moo
Your best - best - friend is dating your ex? This is a cardinal sin amongst the brotherhood of men. Start with randallr's idea and see where that takes you.

May I email you for some priveate one on one?

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One night with her mom.

One night with his mom.
 

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Run for school president like Tammy Metzler did in "Election"

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Or...does she have any sisters?
 

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*sigh* the whole world is like Dawson's Creek.
Originally Posted by Jodum5
Don't reduce yourself into getting angry over this. Simply move on from the girl and realize your best friend is no longer your best friend. Just another guy you're friends with and you can't trust as far as you can throw. No need for deep animosity life is too short.
+1 on that Dawson...goodbye Katie Holmes, goodbye Pacey on your boat, hello college
 

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