Call me a moralistic relativist. Bitch is a psycho. She can do whatever she wants, but she has no right to expect anything from this guy. She can make her own decisions. She didn't take her pill? She is at fault. Tough shit, bitch. Don't be a psycho next time. Men are not to be trusted; neither are women. The sooner you waked up from your Utopian worldview, the better off you will be rkjpeanut. This is the part where I agree and disagree. While the lady certainly has no right to expect anything; the child does. To paraphrase what you said, the OP is at fault. Tough shit, OP. Time to take care of your kid, if that's the way things go. edit: I do agree about getting a DNA test as well any other options to prove or disprove paternity, as discussed by others in the posts below.