ex lied about being pregnant! thanks for all your help.

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  1. hendrix

    hendrix Ill-proportioned

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    She's drinking and smoking up right now? I don't want to know how that baby will turn out. My instinct tells me she's lying in your face.

    +1.


    fuck if she's not though...

    i agree with people telling you not to talk to her so much. She's partly deciding to keep the baby just so she gets attention from you. Call her only when you need to, and only to talk about getting the friggen abortion.


    man, if feel your pain.
     


  2. Yika

    Yika Senior member

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    benefit:
    2. screw up your life by screwing up her life.

    She sounds like sorta girl who would do it.
     


  3. Pantisocrat

    Pantisocrat Senior member

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  4. MetroStyles

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    "I never believed that she would be so stupid to risk her career for a child."

    nah jack, you're the one who's stupid. your whole life is fucked up now, and you deserve it.

    when i get down, here are the rules:

    1.) she's on the pill. if she's not, no thanks.
    2.) i use a condom. if she's not down, no thanks.
    3.) i pull out. if she's not down, no thanks.

    losing a little bit of pleasure is well worth guaranteeing you don't fuck your whole life up with a kid.

    good luck with it, but don't blame it on her for not murdering the child (i'm pro life, naturally). it's your fault for being a fucking idiot and busting your nut inside a bitch.

    rookie mistake.


    Disagreed. Life without rawdog sex is life not worth living. I'd rather kill myself than never have rawdog sex.

    OP is playing everything right. There are risks to all good things in life.
     


  5. rjakapeanut

    rjakapeanut Senior member

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    this thread really sucks. most of you guys are dicks, lol.

    you made a mistake. if you run from it you are a huge coward. giant coward. you made your bed, so fucking sleep in it. don't be an idiot. give her time to make HER decision because YOU did this to HER, in your stupidity.

    don't frame this so it's like she has an issue that's going to end up costing you something. it's a 50/50 proposition, jack. it's JUST as much your fault for doing it.
     


  6. dusty

    dusty Senior member

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    Disagreed. Life without rawdog sex is life not worth living. I'd rather kill myself than never have rawdog sex. OP is playing everything right. There are risks to all good things in life.
    +1, rofl@ jhat+pill+interruptus
     


  7. Pantisocrat

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    Disagreed. Life without rawdog sex is life not worth living. I'd rather kill myself than never have rawdog sex.

    OP is playing everything right. There are risks to all good things in life.


    [​IMG] You are/were not econ major?
     


  8. MetroStyles

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    this thread really sucks. most of you guys are dicks, lol.

    you made a mistake. if you run from it you are a huge coward. giant coward. you made your bed, so fucking sleep in it. don't be an idiot. give her time to make HER decision because YOU did this to HER, in your stupidity.

    don't frame this so it's like she has an issue that's going to end up costing you something. it's a 50/50 proposition, jack. it's JUST as much your fault for doing it.


    When I got a girl preggers I said I'd support any decision she made. That said, it was a different country and I wasn't on the hook for jack shit.

    Look, this isn't 50/50. You are not a coward. You only live once, and you wanna enjoy your life. Use whatever manipulation you need to have her get the abortion.

    If that fails, do a cost/benefit analysis of how much you want to live in Canada vs. become an expat. It's your life - you can be a "responsiblebro" and have to live with a psycho girl and give up your money and happiness, or you can live your life for you. It's not like you killed someone - this bitch is crazy for wanting to give up her career/social life for a kid who will grow up to be a fuckup because he has no dad. She is an idiot. You don't owe her shit. It's not like she is your girlfriend of five years.
     


  9. rjakapeanut

    rjakapeanut Senior member

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    When I got a girl preggers I said I'd support any decision she made. That said, it was a different country and I wasn't on the hook for jack shit.

    Look, this isn't 50/50. You are not a coward. You only live once, and you wanna enjoy your life. Use whatever manipulation you need to have her get the abortion.

    If that fails, do a cost/benefit analysis of how much you want to live in Canada vs. become an expat. It's your life - you can be a "responsiblebro" and have to live with a psycho girl and give up your money and happiness, or you can live your life for you. It's not like you killed someone - this bitch is crazy for wanting to give up her career/social life for a kid who will grow up to be a fuckup because he has no dad. She is an idiot. You don't owe her shit. It's not like she is your girlfriend of five years.


    every one of your points are wrong.

    i've never seen a single post on any forum anywhere so absent of all morals, ethics, dignity, and integrity.

    you are horrible on a level that is staggering.
     


  10. MetroStyles

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    every one of your points are wrong. i've never seen a single post on any forum anywhere so absent of all morals, ethics, dignity, and integrity. you are horrible on a level that is staggering.
    Call me a moralistic relativist. [​IMG] Bitch is a psycho. She can do whatever she wants, but she has no right to expect anything from this guy. She can make her own decisions. She didn't take her pill? She is at fault. Tough shit, bitch. Don't be a psycho next time. Men are not to be trusted; neither are women. The sooner you waked up from your Utopian worldview, the better off you will be rkjpeanut.
     


  11. rjakapeanut

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    your reputation precedes you, metrostyles, but god damn to witness it first hand is remarkable.
     


  12. NoVaguy

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    this thread really sucks. most of you guys are dicks, lol.

    you made a mistake. if you run from it you are a huge coward. giant coward. you made your bed, so fucking sleep in it. don't be an idiot. give her time to make HER decision because YOU did this to HER, in your stupidity.

    don't frame this so it's like she has an issue that's going to end up costing you something. it's a 50/50 proposition, jack. it's JUST as much your fault for doing it.


    +1. I'm not pro-life, but I substantially agree with this. My general thoughts: OP screwed up; it's up to the girl to decide whether to go through with the 9 month pregnancy, OP doesn't deserve a say on whether there will be an abortion or not, and OP deserves to be on the hook for childcare. And I am not sympathetic to the OP's scheming to avoid his responsibilities.
     


  13. MetroStyles

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    your reputation precedes you, metrostyles, but god damn to witness it first hand is remarkable.

    No, firsthand would be me knocking up your sister and then moving to Cambodia to avoid alimony. This is more like fourth-hand.
     


  14. spb_lady

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    every one of your points are wrong.

    i've never seen a single post on any forum anywhere so absent of all morals, ethics, dignity, and integrity.

    you are horrible on a level that is staggering.


    come on... i'm a girl and in this situation i'm on the guy's side. can't see the place where it was played wrong by him.
     


  15. MetroStyles

    MetroStyles Senior member

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    +1. I'm not pro-life, but I substantially agree with this. My general thoughts: OP screwed up; it's up to the girl to decide whether to go through with the 9 month pregnancy, OP doesn't deserve a say on whether there will be an abortion or not, and OP deserves to be on the hook for childcare. And I am not sympathetic to the OP's scheming to avoid his responsibilities.
    Lol. "Deserves". He doesn't deserve shit. He can do whatever is legally within his power to live his life the way he wants. This includes: persuading her with words, moving out of the country, etc. You preachy fucks - head back to the chapel because this isn't the venue. Easy to say all this high and mighty bullshit when it isn't your livelihood on the line.
     


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