Mr. White
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I believe Mr. White's post pertains to the OP's situation specifically, that is, dressing impress either college aged women or college aged men given his lack of income. In contrast to those who say the OP should be as ubiquous as possible, Mr White asserts that those same men want to keep him at the same level, that the women have no taste in men save for international students, and that making a favourable impression on his teachers will do him a lot of good. I agree with Mr White.
Moreover, Mr White argues that for the same budget as the OP has specified for shirts, shoes and jeans alone, he could purchase an entire wardrobe that, while of lower quality, are significantly cheaper and will still look great if the OP pays attention to fit. Sounds reasonable to me.
Thank you.
If the poster doesn't feel comfortable in business casual, he can just as easily substitute the cord-and-flannel look for his winter clothes, and khakis and polos for his summer look. He'd be OK around campus. The drawback is that he'd still have to buy dressier clothes for interviews, for his internship, for meetings, and for church or social events.
Professional people have their own agendas outside the job (or whatever you define as your current occupation). Political activities, charitable works, hobbies and clubs, sports -- all these have a place in a full life. You willl be associating with people who are older than you. You will feel somewhat ignorant and inexperienced. Calling other adults "marsupialed" and "douche" and hiding behind a "rebellious" T-shirt and jeans -- is a cowardly attitude.
What do you do when you're headed to class and you suddenly see the quad full of grad-school or job recruiters? Run back to the dorm?
What to do when you cross paths with a well-dressed woman who is exactly your "type?" Turn and walk away (and head back to the girl with the tattoo and the caterpillar on her lip)?
My advice is to wear clothes that won't embarrass you should opportunities arise.