alright, im getting engaged this summer and wanted to know how some of you engaged/married dudes went about aquiring an engagement ring What does the ring you picked look like? How did you pay for it? Cash lump? Payment plan? Im really excitied but to tell you the truth, I just jumped into this. Marriage has been the plan for months now, when im done school, but engagement this early has only been decided recently. anything at all you could tell me would be great, im so excited!