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Dump my girlfriend or try harder????

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by big_kev, Jan 7, 2010.

  1. MetroStyles

    MetroStyles Senior member

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    Break up with her. If you aren't 90% sure you want to spend the rest of your life with her, dumping her sooner rather than later is best for both of you. Don't be such a pussy.
     


  2. thekunk07

    thekunk07 Senior member

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    ^no, i cheated on all of them but it's important to have a steady so you don;t touch people on the subway or have to resort to roofies.
     


  3. thekunk07

    thekunk07 Senior member

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    you're annoying me and your girlfriend is fucking a black guy.

    If you lived in NYC during your early-to-mid 20s, you shouldn't have had to rely on a steady relationship to clean out your pipes. I lived there when I was 23 - if you have any game in that city, you should be getting some.

    Is this what us guys have become? Prisoners of women we don't like purely because we think this is our only way to get laid? I mean, I've been there, but I've learned from my error a long time ago.

    I'm not against long-term relationships (I'm sort of in one, if you call 8 months long) - but my quality of life is great in this relationship because the girl is really chill, there's no drama and if that changes, I'll end it. Don't waste your life being unhappy fellas.
     


  4. Tck13

    Tck13 Senior member

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    See how you answered your own question? And so quickly.

    +1

    You saying that she has no drive or ambition indicates that you have drive and ambition. As such, staying with her will always hold you back. You will always be wondering "what could have been" and will eventually harbor resentment. Further, the lack of communication will just compound problems. The relationship is doomed to fail - break it off.

    +1

    This is terrible advice. Change the "under 30" to "over 40" and you may have a case... But come on - you shouldn't have to settle at 28. This advice is why there are so many guys that are incredibly p-whipped out there; because they've been told to put up with girls' b.s. because there supposedly aren't other alternatives. Again, terrible, terrible advice.

    If you and your gf are fighting constantly and you've been dating for less than 2 years, than sorry, it won't work. You think commitment + pets + kids will make things better? Never works out this way. Get out while you can and meet a girl whose company you truly enjoy.


    +1

    If you lived in NYC during your early-to-mid 20s, you shouldn't have had to rely on a steady relationship to clean out your pipes. I lived there when I was 23 - if you have any game in that city, you should be getting some.

    Is this what us guys have become? Prisoners of women we don't like purely because we think this is our only way to get laid? I mean, I've been there, but I've learned from my error a long time ago.

    I'm not against long-term relationships (I'm sort of in one, if you call 8 months long) - but my quality of life is great in this relationship because the girl is really chill, there's no drama and if that changes, I'll end it. Don't waste your life being unhappy fellas.


    +1

    Break up with her. If you aren't 90% sure you want to spend the rest of your life with her, dumping her sooner rather than later is best for both of you. Don't be such a pussy.

    +1
     


  5. r...

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    what does being broke have to do with it? 99% of women are annoying cunts, so why trade eric davis for darryl strawberry? same player.

    You were reducing women to glory holes, I was reducing them to glory holes with great bods. Still though, no talking and no allowing them to vote. We agree on that I'm sure.
     


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    distinctive Senior member

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  7. rach2jlc

    rach2jlc Prof. Fabulous Dubiously Honored

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    For a forum where nearly half of you voted that gheyz were bad, you straights sure have some fucked up, infantile relationships.

    The reason we giggle so much is because we're laughing AT you guys, not with you.
     


  8. edmorel

    edmorel Quality Seller!! Dubiously Honored

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    ^no, i cheated on all of them but it's important to have a steady so you don;t touch people on the subway or have to resort to roofies.

    I learned that the hard way.
     


  9. rach2jlc

    rach2jlc Prof. Fabulous Dubiously Honored

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    I learned that the hard way.

    I just assumed it became rather tiring carrying a four pound can of Pasta Sauce with you in your Cuccinelli purse.
     


  10. willpower

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    Is this what us guys have become? Prisoners of women we don't like purely because we think this is our only way to get laid? I mean, I've been there, but I've learned from my error a long time ago. Don't waste your life being unhappy fellas.
    So very true.
     


  11. Dakota rube

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    For a forum where nearly half of you voted that gheyz were bad, you straights sure have some fucked up, infantile relationships.

    The reason we giggle so much is because we're laughing AT you guys, not with you.


    +1
     


  12. edmorel

    edmorel Quality Seller!! Dubiously Honored

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    I just assumed it became rather tiring carrying a four pound can of Pasta Sauce with you in your Cuccinelli purse.

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    It's a brief bag for discerning gentleman, not a purse.


    BTW:

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  13. mkarim

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    Marry her and cheat.

    That could get quite expensive. Better not to marry her - and cheat.
     


  14. mkarim

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    Man, the list of problems goes on and on

    There's your answer.
     


  15. mkarim

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    This advice is why there are so many guys that are incredibly p-whipped out there; because they've been told to put up with girls' b.s. because there supposedly aren't other alternatives.

    +1000 (unfortunately).
     


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