Ok so I'm getting married in 2 weeks, and within the last month, an issue has come up and I'd like to see what everyone here thinks about it. First however, I want to say that I'm going to try and present this in the most un-baised way possible so as to get as many honest responses as possible. Here are the facts: I am getting married in Washington DC in early May. I have purchased my own tux, shoes, and accessories, and they are all traditional black tie. There will be no groomsmen, bridesmaids, maid of honor, or best man as this is a Persian wedding, and they don't have "wedding parties" in the American sense. The dress code for wedding guests is expected to be suit and tie, nothing less. Here's the "issue": I found out 2 weeks ago that my future brother-in-law decided to get a MTM tux for the wedding (it's already a done deal). His tux is identical to mine except that his is a shawl lapel and mine is a peak lapel. I believe he will be the only one besides me wearing a tux at my wedding. Without giving any of my own personal thoughts on this, what does everyone else think about this decision?