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Does porn ruin your sex life?

Discussion in 'Health & Body' started by breakfasteatre, Jan 2, 2011.

  1. Kai

    Kai Senior member

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    From one of the few episodes of Friends I've watched:

    Joey: Whoa! Is this porn? What did I do? I must've hit something on the remote.
    Chandler: Do we pay for this?
    Joey: No, we didn't even pay our cable bill. Maybe this is how they punish us.
    Chandler: Maybe we shouldn't pay our phone bill--free phone sex!
    Joey: Maybe we shouldn't pay our gas bill!


    Chandler: I was just at the bank and there was this really hot teller, and she didn't ask me to go do it with her in the vault!
    Joey: Same kind of thing happened to me! Woman pizza-delivery guy comes over, gives me the pizza, takes the money, and leaves!
    Chandler: What? No, "Nice apartment, I bet the bedrooms are huge?"
    Joey: No! Nothing!
    Chandler: You know what? We have to turn off the porn.
     
  2. SladeDT

    SladeDT Senior member

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    Porn ruins my expectations of how to interact with women, but the sex is still fantastic because I don't whack off non stop.
     
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  5. Don Carlos

    Don Carlos Senior member

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    and interesting. thanks, man.

    I like how the author freely admits she does anal just to relieve a guy's boredom. We need her on SF.
     
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    Brian SD Senior member

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    I like watching porn with my lady friend because I don't have to hide the fact that another girl is turning me on, and I'm making an effort so that it's the only time I'll watch it. I don't want to diminish my sex drive by putting fantasy before reality. It's a rare thing, but she's always down, and prefers only girl-girl stuff. She says if it's not my dick, she doesn't want to see it. Plus she wants to see the different sizes and shapes of their tits, as she's convinced she'll get implants one of these days.

    I can also see where watching it too much (and especially jerking off to it too much) can really harm your sex life.
     
  8. Geoffrey Firmin

    Geoffrey Firmin Senior member

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    This thread is a hoot, I never expected that sex or the lack of it was the cause of so many of life's problems. I used to enjoy porn but now, not so much, nothing to do with my age but there are only so many times you can see someone shove something up a woman's pussy or up her arse and the do his load over her. I mean how much 'oh yeah baby do it, fuck me, moan, groan' can you take? Mind you I used to date a girl in Sydney back in the 80's who loved to watch gay porn it turned her on no end. Me unless you getting access to quality porn the models are just too ugly. If I was going to beat it well I would use my imagination. Does that mean I need help?[​IMG]
     
  9. Don Carlos

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    there are only so many times you can see someone shove something up a woman's pussy or up her arse and the do his load over her. I mean how much 'oh yeah baby do it, fuck me, moan, groan' can you take?

    If there's a limit, I have yet to reach it after several decades of voracious porn consumption. I hope I never do.

    A lot of chicks are really into gay porn, or at least the theoretical fantasy of two dudes going at it. Either this preference is on the rise among young women, or it's always been a guilty pleasure that they now feel more comfortable sharing. But yeah. I have had many chicks say the same thing. I have even had chicks ask me to do the deed for their sexual gratification. Spoiler alert: I declined. Politely and respectfully, though. Lord knows I'm not one to cast judgment on others' kinks. And frankly, I get really turned on by perverted girls anyhow.

    I agree to some extent, but entirely. The internet makes pretty much anything and everything imaginable in porn available to you in seconds. There is really no excuse these days for not being able to find the right kind of porn for you, whether in terms of subject matter or style or types of performers.
     
  10. Geoffrey Firmin

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    I agree to some extent, but entirely. The internet makes pretty much anything and everything imaginable in porn available to you in seconds. There is really no excuse these days for not being able to find the right kind of porn for you, whether in terms of subject matter or style or types of performers.
    The problem is that most free porn is full of half starved individuals who are plain butt ugly. If and its a big if, quality porn was free it could make me change my mind do you know of any good sites?[​IMG] [​IMG] And as for declining the 'date' you poor fool, entry via the back door of a woman is one of life's great pleasures. The girl is question enjoyed it immensely and in a variety of positions. My life changed when she switched from Vaseline to KY. (sigh I do miss her more so since when I broached the subject with the wife she replied,'you want to put what where!' ) Personally if you have what Freud termed 'polymorphous perversity' and it brings no harm to others or to your self then by all means indulge it.
     
  11. Don Carlos

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    The problem is that most free porn is full of half starved individuals who are plain butt ugly. If and its a big if, quality porn was free it could make me change my mind do you know of any good sites?[​IMG] [​IMG]
    Google a site called FreeOnes. It is chock full of videos and photos of pay-quality porn stars in free form. Tommys-bookmarks.com is also a pretty good site, which compiles by category a huge swath of free porn -- be it amateurs or clips from pay porn. You can also Google or BitTorrent pretty much any pay porn ever made these days. Like I said, the internet is pretty magical. [​IMG] I would consider nothing, be it porn or otherwise, unavailable to the enterprising and clever Googler.
     
  12. Pieceofsand

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    I've became very selective on my choice of pornography. I find myself more excited when there seem to be enjoyment going on from the female actress.
     
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    I've became very selective on my choice of pornography. I find myself more excited when there seem to be enjoyment going on from the female actress.

    Are you okay with feigned enjoyment?
     
  14. Don Carlos

    Don Carlos Senior member

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    I've became very selective on my choice of pornography. I find myself more excited when there seem to be enjoyment going on from the female actress.

    Studies have shown that this is a psychological urge on your part to identify with the female role in the sex. You, Pieceofsand, secretly and subconsciously wish it was you getting impaled by that 12-inch black fuckhammer.
     
  15. Geoffrey Firmin

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    Don Carlos

    Wow, I think that porn has not only ruined your sex life but have you considered help for your psychological malficence?
     
  16. Don Carlos

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    Don Carlos

    Wow, I think that porn has not only ruined your sex life but have you considered help for your psychological malficence?


    [​IMG]
     
  17. Pieceofsand

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    Studies have shown that this is a psychological urge on your part to identify with the female role in the sex. You, Pieceofsand, secretly and subconsciously wish it was you getting impaled by that 12-inch black fuckhammer.

    lol. I enjoy porn where both parties in the video enjoy what they're doing, as oppose to the poorly done acting. As a straight man I comfortable enough to admit that I enjoy passionate love making. As far as me wanting a black cock in my ass for that reason, I'm not quite sure how you conclude your logic, please do explain.
     
  18. acidboy

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    fwiw, I'm rediscovering the works of ms. leone. and its not ruining my sex life at all. [​IMG]
     
  19. cross22

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    lol. I enjoy porn where both parties in the video enjoy what they're doing, as oppose to the poorly done acting. As a straight man I comfortable enough to admit that I enjoy passionate love making. As far as me wanting a black cock in my ass for that reason, I'm not quite sure how you conclude your logic, please do explain.

    [​IMG]
     
  20. cross22

    cross22 Senior member

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    porn can only add to your sex life...its only a problem if you'd rather look at porn than be with your woman

    This is really the gist of the problem. This is more common than people realize.
     

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