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Does porn ruin your sex life?

Discussion in 'Health & Body' started by breakfasteatre, Jan 2, 2011.

  1. SField

    SField Senior member

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    I only watch amateur "porn".

    Don't know how people could even watch professional stuff.
     


  2. aj_del

    aj_del Senior member

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    porn just makes you expect that a lot of abnormal stuff should be par for the course

    +100
     


  3. tagutcow

    tagutcow Senior member

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    How can porn ruin my sex life? Porn is my sex life.
     


  4. justsayno

    justsayno Senior member

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    lol
    How can porn ruin my sex life? Porn is my sex life.
     


  5. alliswell

    alliswell Senior member

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    How can porn ruin my sex life? Porn is my sex life.

    14 minutes late to the only good joke. FML for reading all the old posts.
     


  6. origenesprit

    origenesprit Senior member

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    I only watch amateur "porn".

    Don't know how people could even watch professional stuff.


    Like, actual amateur or fake amateur? I mean, third person cameraman stuff still counts, right?
     


  7. ruben

    ruben Senior member

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    Sex is the barometer in a relationship. Are you sure this relationship hasn't run it's course?

    Interesting thoughts, though I know a number of people in healthy, fairly sexless relationships, but they seem off.
     


  8. acidboy

    acidboy Senior member

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    I try to use porn to better my sex life, but then again I'm not a total prude and know that imagination and reality are different. [​IMG]

    prudes are the ones that end up doing the weird shit imo

    This is just awkward, don't do it.

    there are subtle ways to initiate it, if you want to that is. easiest would be talking/discussing porn and see if she's curious enough to watch with you.

    Totally bland regular porn. I don't know, it was just totally unstimulating.

    you know whats unstimulating, that (fake) sticky saliva they use to slather up the penor so when the girl gives head, there's like clear slimy goo all over.

    that, and money shots and the tragedy of a limp dick in mid-action.

    How can porn ruin my sex life? Porn is my sex life.

    [​IMG]

    Interesting thoughts, though I know a number of people in healthy, fairly sexless relationships, but they seem off.

    its called "friendship"
     


  9. SField

    SField Senior member

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    Like, actual amateur or fake amateur? I mean, third person cameraman stuff still counts, right?

    no. Stuff people make themselves. Sex without some kind of emotion behind it is useless and not at all erotic.
     


  10. gort

    gort Senior member

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    Do you exercise a lot? Are you depressed?
     


  11. OakCreekHitter

    OakCreekHitter Senior member

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    maybe you have erectile dynsfunction

    if you can stay hard when you look at your gf/wife naked, it means you are still attracted to her. if not, i think it is time to move on
     


  12. RSS

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    maybe you have erectile dynsfunction

    if you can stay hard when you look at your gf/wife naked, it means you are still attracted to her. if not, i think it is time to move on

    I take it you plan doing a trade-in or two as you get older?
     


  13. suited

    suited Senior member

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    Porn can seriously effect relationships for any number of reasons.

    1) If you're watching porn all the time and masturbating, your sex drive is going to be non-existent, and you're probably not going to find any woman very desirable if you're beating it multiple times per day.

    2) Porn can be mentally addictive. It allows you to fulfill any fantasy you like at the touch of a mouse. That can be a hard habit to break, especially as it becomes routine.

    3) It acclimates you to expect that any and every time you're involved in a sexual experience, it's going to be some nasty fantasy you have, or it's going to be exactly what you want at all times. This can lead to your actual, physical sexual encounters becoming less satisfying over time. This of course encourages the porn/masturbation which just goes around in a circle.
     


  14. darnelled

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    We only watch our own.
     


  15. unjung

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    I no longer look at any porn other than erotic photos, Met Art style and all that. Pretty sure it was screwing with my head.
     


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