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Does porn ruin your sex life?

Discussion in 'Health & Body' started by breakfasteatre, Jan 2, 2011.

  1. OakCreekHitter

    OakCreekHitter Senior member

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    maybe you have erectile dynsfunction

    if you can stay hard when you look at your gf/wife naked, it means you are still attracted to her. if not, i think it is time to move on
     
  2. RSS

    RSS Senior member

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    maybe you have erectile dynsfunction

    if you can stay hard when you look at your gf/wife naked, it means you are still attracted to her. if not, i think it is time to move on

    I take it you plan doing a trade-in or two as you get older?
     
  3. suited

    suited Senior member

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    Porn can seriously effect relationships for any number of reasons.

    1) If you're watching porn all the time and masturbating, your sex drive is going to be non-existent, and you're probably not going to find any woman very desirable if you're beating it multiple times per day.

    2) Porn can be mentally addictive. It allows you to fulfill any fantasy you like at the touch of a mouse. That can be a hard habit to break, especially as it becomes routine.

    3) It acclimates you to expect that any and every time you're involved in a sexual experience, it's going to be some nasty fantasy you have, or it's going to be exactly what you want at all times. This can lead to your actual, physical sexual encounters becoming less satisfying over time. This of course encourages the porn/masturbation which just goes around in a circle.
     
  4. darnelled

    darnelled Senior member

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    We only watch our own.
     
  5. unjung

    unjung Senior member

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    I no longer look at any porn other than erotic photos, Met Art style and all that. Pretty sure it was screwing with my head.
     
  6. Tokyo Slim

    Tokyo Slim Senior member

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    Yeah, because it's the fucking porn causing your relationship problems.

    [​IMG]
     
  7. gotlighters

    gotlighters Senior member

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    the gf and I watch porn together.
     
  8. Rambo

    Rambo Senior member

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    I no longer look at any porn other than erotic photos, Met Art style and all that. Pretty sure it was screwing with my head.
    What the fuck?
     
  9. Svenn

    Svenn Senior member

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    3) It acclimates you to expect that any and every time you're involved in a sexual experience, it's going to be some nasty fantasy you have, or it's going to be exactly what you want at all times. This can lead to your actual, physical sexual encounters becoming less satisfying over time. This of course encourages the porn/masturbation which just goes around in a circle.

    I don't really agree, I think the porn and real-life sex parts of my brain are totally separate and independent, they don't really influence each other.

    As the old saying goes, behind even the hottest chick is a boyfriend tired of f-cking her. Some men just get bored of sex quickly no matter what the partner looks like OP, and if anything porn helps the situation because it allows him to stray without actually straying.
     
  10. jarude

    jarude Senior member

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    I got to the point where porn became boring and sex with the gf got better.
     
  11. theantiquematinee

    theantiquematinee Senior member

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    sometimes when we're doing it i say porney things.

    Bahahahahaahah
     
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    As the old saying goes, behind even the hottest chick is a boyfriend tired of f-cking her.
    I feel quite happy that familiarity often has the opposite effect on me ... assuming, of course, there is an attraction.
     
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    As long as a partner is willing ... I would think that at least some porn might be used to improve a couple's sex life. No ... you don't have to call her (or him) a "cheap slut sex poodle" a la Lilly Tomlin (as Edwina Cutwater) via Steve Martin (as Roger Cobb) to Victoria Tennant (as Terry Hoskins) in the movie All of Me ... unless, of course, s/he wants that.
     
  14. DerekS

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    I feel like that chick that solved that wheel of fortune puzzle with only one letter on the board. I know the answer, I know the answer [​IMG] [​IMG]

    i bet seeing some latin guy with his shirt off cleaning the pool would get his penor hard. teh gheyness.
     
  15. DerekS

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    porn just makes you expect that a lot of abnormal stuff should be par for the course

    True. I used to watch a TON. Was on a date with a girl...she said.."do you know what I want?" I said "yeah of course, a banana split in your pussy and a fist in your ass!"
    ........wrong answer...she said "NO PERVERT! POPCORN!!"

    popcorn in her pussy? what the feck? what a freak....
     
  16. Szeph el raton

    Szeph el raton Senior member

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    Porn can seriously effect relationships for any number of reasons.

    1) If you're watching porn all the time and masturbating, your sex drive is going to be non-existent, and you're probably not going to find any woman very desirable if you're beating it multiple times per day.

    2) Porn can be mentally addictive. It allows you to fulfill any fantasy you like at the touch of a mouse. That can be a hard habit to break, especially as it becomes routine.

    3) It acclimates you to expect that any and every time you're involved in a sexual experience, it's going to be some nasty fantasy you have, or it's going to be exactly what you want at all times. This can lead to your actual, physical sexual encounters becoming less satisfying over time. This of course encourages the porn/masturbation which just goes around in a circle.

    Summed up my life. It's time they invent Sex 2.0 so it's fun again.

    But serious. Do you spank your monkey too often? I used to do it 4-7 times daily with the result that, while I still got wood, there was 0 pleasure in sex.
     
  17. mordecai

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    This is just awkward, don't do it.
    +1, unless it's to laugh.
     
  18. SField

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    True. I used to watch a TON. Was on a date with a girl...she said.."do you know what I want?" I said "yeah of course, a banana split in your pussy and a fist in your ass!" ........wrong answer...she said "NO PERVERT! POPCORN!!" popcorn in her pussy? what the feck? what a freak....
    I had sex with a girl who wanted me to go to the ice machine to get some ice cubes to rub on her asshole. She was so embarrassed when I declined that she left. Except that she was my date to my friends wedding. So we spent the next two days in public together. Still slept in the same bed as me, but managed to say a like 3 words to me in the room and slept on like 3 inches of the left side of the bed. That was fun.
     
  19. 300zx1985

    300zx1985 Senior member

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    A few suggestions from my own experience:
    Watching porn with a girl can be akward - it really depends on the girl... I have done it before and usually laugh over it rather than become turned on. I wouldnt suggest that. If you feel the urge to fap - do it in the shower or something with your own imagination, IMO porn can lower your sex drive with your own woman if youre watching it too much. Have fun.
     
  20. mordecai

    mordecai Senior member

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    I had sex with a girl who wanted me to go to the ice machine to get some ice cubes to rub on her asshole.

    ....I declined...


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