...I am not one for long sessions at the marraige therapist/counselling office if thats what you mean... No, that's not what I was suggesting. I am not a big fan of marriage counselors. It's just that I spent several years in a marriage that started out wonderfully, but regressed to "roommate" status and then to dissolution. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. I'd rather be divorced than repeat that experience, as would, I'm sure, my ex-wife.