Do you care about being rejected?

[StreetSmarts]

I think fear of rejection leads to you rejecting yourself anyways. Even though I attempt to convince myself that I don't care, it's just a girl, etc... that lingering thought of failure always stops me.

 

[HelloIDistance]

You really need to change your name.

 

[Unbreakable]

No, their loss.

 

[Cleav]

yes, but blag it anyway and reap the rewards!

 

[Dakota rube]

Cannot solve circular references.

 

[texas_jack]

Anyone who doesn't care about being rejected is probably a sociopath. The key is to not let it bother you too much.

 

[MetroStyles]

Originally Posted by texas_jack

Anyone who doesn't care about being rejected is probably a sociopath. The key is to not let it bother you too much.

+1

But I bet the forum playaz will disagree with you.

 

[racetrack]

Originally Posted by texas_jack

Anyone who doesn't care about being rejected is probably a sociopath. The key is to not let it bother you too much.

After some conscious effort, it just doesn't phase you anymore. It's all in your head and once you fully realize that, it becomes easy as pie.

 

[sho'nuff]

of course we care about being rejected. in the core of everyone is the need to be loved.

rejection, respect, being understood, etc are all derivatives of that . we are hardwired to take it hard when we get rejected you cant say you arent. that is human.

 

[Thomas]

I reject this thread, but please don't take it personally.

 

[SkinnyGoomba]

Originally Posted by MetroStyles

+1

But I bet the forum playaz will disagree with you.

But you be the forym playaz?

 

[fredfred]

I reject your avatar. It looks like Erkel.

 

[MetroStyles]

Originally Posted by SkinnyGoomba

But you be the forym playaz?

Dude when you're dialing random numbers in your phone to try to fish for lays and when you have 8000 posts on SF, you ain't a playAz.

 

[SkinnyGoomba]

Originally Posted by MetroStyles

Dude when you're dialing random numbers in your phone to try to fish for lays and when you have 8000 posts on SF, you ain't a playAz.

play on playa

 

[hedgehog]

If you don't care about being rejected, you probably don't care too much about the person rejecting you. I guess there are just degrees of handling rejection properly.