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Do you care about being rejected?

StreetSmarts

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I think fear of rejection leads to you rejecting yourself anyways. Even though I attempt to convince myself that I don't care, it's just a girl, etc... that lingering thought of failure always stops me.
 

Unbreakable

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No, their loss.
 

Dakota rube

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Cannot solve circular references.
 

MetroStyles

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Originally Posted by texas_jack
Anyone who doesn't care about being rejected is probably a sociopath. The key is to not let it bother you too much.

+1

But I bet the forum playaz will disagree with you.
 

racetrack

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Originally Posted by texas_jack
Anyone who doesn't care about being rejected is probably a sociopath. The key is to not let it bother you too much.

After some conscious effort, it just doesn't phase you anymore. It's all in your head and once you fully realize that, it becomes easy as pie.
 

Thomas

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I reject this thread, but please don't take it personally.
 

fredfred

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I reject your avatar. It looks like Erkel.
 

MetroStyles

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Originally Posted by SkinnyGoomba
But you be the forym playaz?

Dude when you're dialing random numbers in your phone to try to fish for lays and when you have 8000 posts on SF, you ain't a playAz.
 

SkinnyGoomba

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Originally Posted by MetroStyles
Dude when you're dialing random numbers in your phone to try to fish for lays and when you have 8000 posts on SF, you ain't a playAz.

play on playa
 

hedgehog

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If you don't care about being rejected, you probably don't care too much about the person rejecting you. I guess there are just degrees of handling rejection properly.
 

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