I was wondering how many of my compadres here have been through divorces. Unfortunately, I'm heading that way as my wife is demanding a separation. She's saying we can separate for a year and then get divorced. It's probably for the better, but I wish she was at least willing to seek counseling, for the sake of our 4-year-old. I don't think she realizes how traumatic this is going to be for everyone -- me, her, our daughter, her family, my family. And even if it doesn't work, it could prepare for the road ahead. It's really tough because my little girl is always drawing pictures of the three of us holding hands.