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Desperate Girls

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by TyCooN, Feb 1, 2011.

  1. TyCooN

    TyCooN Senior member

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    Seriously, I met a gal online a few years ago. We met for a coffee, then a drink. Then dinner. Then she was on her knees sucking my dick. (This was all one day.) In between slurps, she looked up at me and asked, "where have you been all my life?" That was our last date.
    How do you guys feel about girls who come off as desperate? Does it turn you off or do you not care?
    Discuss.[​IMG]
     
  2. mordecai

    mordecai Senior member

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    if she's unashamed of her desperation it can be kind of a turn on, once or twice.
     
  3. philosophe

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    exist primarily in your imagination.
     
  4. kwilkinson

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    exist primarily in your imagination.

    [​IMG]
     
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    don't mind at all.....
     
  6. pseudonym

    pseudonym Senior member

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    The way you all should approach this is you're just in it for the lay.

    The hit-it-and-quit-it rule definitely applies here, regardless of how lame it sounds.
     
  7. TyCooN

    TyCooN Senior member

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    don't mind at all.....
    [​IMG]
     
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    Desperate people, even if you're already in a relationship with them, are just asking to be run away from. Desperate gf = unattractive and makes you think you can do much better so you want to *clap clap* get away
    desperate girl = unattractive and make you wonder wtf is wrong with her

    a while back I was on a ferry when someone dropped a note in my lap with a phone # to text her. I did out of morbid curiousity and met her in the back of the ferry and talked with her. She was okay looking but asked for my email and msn and asked to meet for coffee like the very next night and I never talked to her again.
     
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    While I don't advocate using a woman's body merely for one's own pleasure, I have found that a desperate chubby makes for an energetic and quite willing slump-buster.

    ymmv
     
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    we aren't talking about marriage. if she is boanable, then what is da problemo?
     
  12. TyCooN

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    we aren't talking about marriage. if she is boanable, then what is da problemo?
    What if she's desperate and goes for anyone? She might have the AIDSpussy.
     
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    I had the exact same thing happen to me as Dakota rube's story in the OP a while back... but I didn't really view it as a negative thing for her to do because 1. she was hot, 2. she was an MD; and hell we're still together. I think she was just inexperienced/over-zealous or maybe just a romantic, which is fine by me [​IMG] It all depends on the girl and the specific situation of the parties I guess... if it was a random chick in a bar and it seemed like she did that type of thing a lot, I would obviously be worried about the aids.
     
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    TyCooN Senior member

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    I had the exact same thing happen to me as Dakota rube's story in the OP a while back... but I didn't really view it as a negative thing for her to do because 1. she was hot, 2. she was an MD; and hell we're still together. I think she was just inexperienced/over-zealous or maybe just a romantic, which is fine by me [​IMG] It all depends on the girl and the specific situation of the parties I guess... if it was a random chick in a bar and it seemed like she[​IMG] did that type of thing a lot, I would obviously be worried about the aids.
    [​IMG]
     
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    I don't mind while there's easy pickins', but it becomes pathetic and/or scary eventually.
     
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    Depends what your after; for a night of pump-and-dump they are fine (just check for warts and other suspect visuals down bellow), but if I am looking for something serious then desperate chicks are a huge turn off.

    Just as women get turned off by desperate guys.
     
  17. Milpool

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    Warning bells go off in my mind if a girl seems desperate, especially if she is attractive.

    Only once have I met a very beautiful girl with a great body that seemed desperate. Alarms were ringing in my head the whole time. We met at a bar, but she didn't seem like a pro. She gave me her number, and I figured what the hell and we went on a date mostly because she was a lot hotter than what I can usually attract, despite the strange desperation vibe she was giving off.

    The date was going pretty well, although she said some things that seemed very conspiracy theory-ish.

    Finally towards the end of the date she admitted to me that she had just been released from the hospital for paranoid schizophrenia a few months prior to meeting me, her whole life had basically come crashing down, she had no job anymore (she was college educated and had a good job), and was now on disability and living with her parents again.

    Never heard from her again.
     
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    I, for one, am tired of women tripping over each other to get at me. Ah, the burdens of the $250k minimum wage man. It gives me a real appreciation of the real Big Timers and their daily struggles.
     
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    I, for one, am tired of women tripping over each other to get at me. Ah, the burdens of the $250k minimum wage man. It gives me a real appreciation of the real Big Timers and their daily struggles.

    the big boy mansion!
     
  20. blahman

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    Warning bells go off in my mind if a girl seems desperate, especially if she is attractive. Only once have I met a very beautiful girl with a great body that seemed desperate. Alarms were ringing in my head the whole time. We met at a bar, but she didn't seem like a pro. She gave me her number, and I figured what the hell and we went on a date mostly because she was a lot hotter than what I can usually attract, despite the strange desperation vibe she was giving off. The date was going pretty well, although she said some things that seemed very conspiracy theory-ish. Finally towards the end of the date she admitted to me that she had just been released from the hospital for paranoid schizophrenia a few months prior to meeting me, her whole life had basically come crashing down, she had no job anymore (she was college educated and had a good job), and was now on disability and living with her parents again. Never heard from her again.
    I believe there is a Hot-Sane-Single triangle that's always right. :p
     

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