Dating Scene- What are the do's and dont's on the first date?

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  1. whoopee

    whoopee Senior member

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    Fortune favours the brave.
     
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    itsstillmatt The Liberator Dubiously Honored

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    Fortune favours the brave.
    Either that or memories favor the senile. A girl I was friends with from about 5th grade through college clued me in on this. It makes sense, wouldn't you rather somebody just asked you for what they wanted, rather than try to trick you into giving it to them? It certainly worked better than the sick lines I was using before that time.
     
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    Either that or memories favor the senile.

    A girl I was friends with from about 5th grade through college clued me in on this. It makes sense, wouldn't you rather somebody just asked you for what they wanted, rather than try to trick you into giving it to them? It certainly worked better than the sick lines I was using before that time.


    Iammatt you are so metaphoric. I really do appreaciate your advice. Please explain in simple english language.
     
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    itsstillmatt The Liberator Dubiously Honored

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    Iammatt you are so metaphoric. I really do appreaciate your advice. Please explain in simple english language.
    I just mean that perhaps I did not get laid as much as I think that I did, but from my memory, just asking a girl if she would like to have sex is a better way to get some than to beat around the bush. Be cautioned that I have been married around ten years and lived with my now wife for the five years before that. Because of this, my experience and advice is a bit dated. FWIW, my wife concurs that this is really pretty good advice.
     
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    beat around the bush.
    GROOOOAAAAN. Not even a disarming "so to speak"! [​IMG]
     
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    itsstillmatt The Liberator Dubiously Honored

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    GROOOOAAAAN. Not even a disarming "so to speak"! [​IMG]
    Didn't even think about it. Simply brsting it around the bush is probably a good way to turn girls off.
     
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    Didn't even think about it. Simply brsting it around the bush is probably a good way to turn girls off.
    One would imagine. If that was your tactic prior to simply asking, I believe we've discovered why the switch was so successful. [​IMG]
     
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    Rome Mr. Chocolates Godiva

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    Iammatt you are so metaphoric. I really do appreaciate your advice. Please explain in simple english language.

    He wasn't being metaphoric at all, he was saying if you just flat out ask if she wants to have sex after the date is over it cuts through all the guessing by giving you the two following outcomes. See scenarios below:

    Scenario 1.
    You: I had a great time tonight, how about we go back your place and I let you ride the train to "O" town?

    Her: Well, OK. But my roommate comes home in about an hour.

    You: Roommate you say? That's ok, you know what they say, The blacker the berry the sweeter the erm a juice...

    Her: Wha??

    You: ALL ABOARD.

    Scenario 2.
    You: Wow that was fun, how about we go back to your place for some consensual intercourse?

    Her: Uhh, no that's ok. I think I'll take a cab home.

    You: But you know what they say, the blacker the b... ok see you latter.
     
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    Have you ever played "Magic: The Gathering"? It's a card-based game that used to be very popular but now maintains a strong underground presence in card-game circles. Magic players often meet at large gatherings (pun not intended... LOL!) usually attended by quite a few females.

    I've found that rolling up to one of these ladies (preferably as she's shuffling her cards... catching her off-guard is key) and saying something like "Hey, wanna let me tap your mana?" will pretty much guarantee you some action.
     
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    Have you ever played "Magic: The Gathering"? It's a card-based game that used to be very popular but now maintains a strong underground presence in card-game circles. Magic players often meet at large gatherings (pun not intended... LOL!) usually attended by quite a few females.

    I've found that rolling up to one of these ladies (preferably as she's shuffling her cards... catching her off-guard is key) and saying something like "Hey, wanna let me tap your mana?" will pretty much guarantee you some action.

    Can you imagine it?
     
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    just asking a girl if she would like to have sex is a better way to get some than to beat around the bush.

    Yes, the Continental approach.[​IMG]



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    Tomasso,

    LOL.

    Jon.
     
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    Yes, the Continental approach.[​IMG]



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    Would you care for some cham-pan-ye?
     

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