Dating a girl with a boyfriend

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  1. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    If you like her:
    If she's dating you it's because her relationship is over with already, so if you like drama then you can probably get her to break up with him and switch to you easily.

    If you just want to screw:
    Again, she wouldn't be dating you if something wasn't up with the relationship. You guys will either bone and eventually she'll break up with him and continue boning until then(best case scenario) or she will realize that she really loves her BF and doesn't want to screw around. This epiphany can be either before or after boning.
     
  2. acidboy

    acidboy Senior member

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    if you have to ask in styleforum, then its not gonna happen
     
  3. kwilkinson

    kwilkinson Having a Ball

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    I think adultery is when one of the parties is married. And I think by dating he means shagging her.

    Sorry Mr. Morel. Replace adultery with cheating.
     
  4. TeeKay

    TeeKay Senior member

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    Relationship = purely physical in this situation. The guy is a weenie that lives 6+ hours away. Girl looks good.
     
  5. in stitches

    in stitches Kung Joo Moderator

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    rationalizing is a great first step on the way to doing something you know to be wrong
     
  6. Rosenberg

    Rosenberg Senior member

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    rationalizing is a great first step on the way to doing something you know to be wrong

    Yep. It's one thing if you genuinely "didn't know" about the situation, but you obviously do.
     
  7. CouttsClient

    CouttsClient Senior member

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    When I was a few years younger I moved someone's boyfriend in with me for a couple of months because he was without a place to stay. She had no idea what was going on and would come over for drinks about 1-2 times per week to relax. Boy was gay/bi/curious and wanted to basically pay for a place to stay by being..."available". You get my drift. He needed a place to stay and I wasn't prepared to turn him down. I contributed to and created a seriously fucked up situation. One day he called me from work and said "OMG...She's pregnant. I don't know what do to." When he got to my house I wrote him a check, told him I reserved him a hotel room for a week and he could use the money to rent a place once he found something permanent. I wished him luck and changed my #. Lesson learned: Don't be an asshole! Another lesson: Life can be just like one of those fucked up Lifetime Network movies
     
  8. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    I read that post three times and still don't think I understand it.
     
  9. CouttsClient

    CouttsClient Senior member

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    I read that post three times and still don't think I understand it.
    Mine? Don't worry. I don't understand why I did it
     
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    Benzito Senior member

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    Is the OP the same guy who started the "Friendly Fire" threak in DT? I see that on the horizon, best case scenario for you. For you, not me. Not that there's anything wrong with that, if you're into that sort of thing.
     
  11. Benzito

    Benzito Senior member

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    Mine? Don't worry. I don't understand why I did it

    So ... he was two-timing you and he got a chick pregnant? And then you wrote him a check? What are we missing?
     
  12. CouttsClient

    CouttsClient Senior member

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    So ... he was two-timing you and he got a chick pregnant? And then you wrote him a check? What are we missing?
    He was two-timing her. I wrote him the check so he could get out of my house. Maybe you missed the gay thing.
     
  13. acecow

    acecow Senior member

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    He was two-timing her.

    I wrote him the check so he could get out of my house. Maybe you missed the gay thing.


    Kinda like I had to do with an ex-gf. [​IMG] No choice, really. She wouldn't leave otherwise.
     
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    Good idea or bad idea? Discuss.

    oiy [​IMG]
     
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    I think adultery is when one of the parties is married. And I think by dating he means shagging her.

    Seriously. Why the need to be the morality police? Who the hell knows what these people's situation is, how serious they are (I'm going to guess not very), and why she wants to sleep around. Maybe a fuck buddy is just what the doctor ordered.

    Schtup her if you wanna, just don't be a dick to her and don't get to attached.
     

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