I rec'd some cufflinks as a gift. They're double-sided on a chain. I have a heck of a time putting them in, especially in the morning before the first cup of coffee. Is there a trick to it? Is it something your hand eventually learns to do as second nature? Any tips that do not include asking my wife to do it for me? If it makes a difference, I wear custom shirts that have well-fitting cuffs. I suppose it might be easier if the cuffs were looser, but that's no option. Thanks in advance.