GeneralEmployer
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See my above comments. I am really quite flummoxed by the forum’s anxiety over calling attention to one’s self. That is just a way of disguising the desire to be normal—or worse, the need to validate one’s limited ability to venture beyond normalcy—with a false veneer of “taste”, “elegance”, “manners”, etc.
Well, we are social creatures. I think there is a clear balancing act between the sensation one receives from an object, and the sensation others receive. It is very hard not to consider the sensation of others. In many outward facing things that concern design, I follow that old Mantonian principle, that is, outward facing design is a means to an end. For instance, say starting tomorrow that a type of so-called feminine garment replaced the suit as our societally accepted form of business attire (feminine in design, but considerate of the male anatomy). People in suits were gawked at and shun. Well, would you persist in wearing a suit? It's easy to say yes, but hard to do.
Also, in terms of the "median," I once more subscribe to the Mantonian principle that there will be some things you'll have no natural interest in. And thus, there's no need to pursue them. However, part of poaster's fascination with you, is that there seems to be no end to your material interests. Is there something that's a common possession that you have no interest in? Some poasters can say cars, watches, or furniture. This leads some to the conclusion that you either are like the Walt Whitman of buying stuff, or you're a poseur. Perhaps this is a false dichotomy, but I think of you as Walt Whitman: a man filled to the brim desire, one who drinks life to the lees.