I was told that coconut oil was one of if not the best things you can use on your hair. The thing I'm confused about is how you use it. Some google searches tell me that you should: 1) Comb the oil through your hair. 2) Leave it on for at least 20 mins. 3) Shampoo and condition your hair. That's fine but if shampoo cleans the crap out of your hair and conditioner replaces the natural oils... isn't coconut oil just a kind of conditioner? In other words should it be used after shampoo as opposed to before?