Cheating and men... is it really that bad?

[Flambeur]

I mean sex is just sex for us guys, right? (outside of the STD, pregnancy risk factors)

Is there really a difference between jacking off while watching Jenna Jameson or getting blown by a little asian thing with ********? You can do either one and still love your significant other.

I don't know, it's strange. Each of the top three smartest, most intelligent women I've dated kind of basically implied - "i know guys stray and have fun, but please make sure that I never find out"

hmmmm

 

[Flambeur]

in other news - I missed post 1500.

 

[Neo_Version 7]

I wish the girls I know shared the same philosophy with your top 3.

 

[TMMKC]

If your favorite restaurant stops serving your favorite dish, you still may go there for an occasional cocktail and enjoy chatting with the help, but they have no right to blame you if you go next door to dine.

 

[Nantucket Red]

Cheating should be expected of you. Sex is sex, lust is lust, and love is for suckers.

 

[Flambeur]

Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7

I wish the girls I know shared the same philosophy with your top 3.

Interestingly enough, I am pretty sure that I never even brought it up - they just kind of volunteered that information.

Hell, my current g/f told a whole group of friends at a very long, drunken brunch that she'd be absolutely fine with me "tipping" a stripper for a ******* if i wanted to.

So I have witnesses and ****.

 

[Flambeur]

Originally Posted by Nantucket Red

Cheating should be expected of you. Sex is sex, lust is lust, and love is for suckers.


Well, real love is like this amazing chemical obsession, the perfect drug. I love the feeling, too bad it never really lasts, but I guess it's for the better. It's amazing to feel like you just really want to give up everything for just a second more of breathing/feeling/taking/******* in that special person.

 

[TyCooN]

The way I see it women don't care so much when you **** other women until you decide to emotionally invest into the "other girl". When you put your passion into another female that divides your resources between "original girl" and "other girl". She's just trying to do her job by securing resources for herself, so she can take care of her offspring.

Now as men we don't care if she has emotional bonds with another guy. In fact I bet everyone's girlfriend has some "nice guy" she can fall back on, usually her male "best friend". This is the character that she uses as an emotional tampon when you're not letting her have her way. We only care when she decides to **** another guy. Our genes come first, we wouldn't want to be raising another person's little bastard.

 

[Neo_Version 7]

I mean I can understand the attachment to a particular person but obviously the hunger for others starts setting in. So I would suggest you get all the oral you can get behind closed doors.

 

[Flambeur]

Originally Posted by TyCooN

The way I see it women don't care so much when you **** other women until you decide to emotionally invest into the "other girl". When you put your passion into another female that divides your resources between "original girl" and "other girl". She's just trying to do her job by securing resources for herself, so she can take care of her offspring.

Now as men we don't care if she has emotional bonds with another guy. In fact I bet everyone's girlfriend has some "nice guy" she can fall back on, usually her male "best friend". This is the character that she uses as an emotional tampon when you're not letting her have her way. We only care when she decides to **** another guy. Our genes come first, we wouldn't want to be raising another person's little bastard.

I usually find your posts pretty idiotic (no offense, just your whole wondering about what to do with your life and failing out of the marines thing) but this is not bad.

I agree on #1.
#2 is more complicated. There is a thin line between an emotional tampon and someone who understands a chick and feels like a tampon. You understand the rest, since you understand emotions and women.

We are suckers for sex, they are suckers for emotional *******. It really is a key to seduction, IMHO.

 

[TMMKC]

Originally Posted by TyCooN

The way I see it women don't care so much when you **** other women...

I wish my wife felt that way.

 

[Flambeur]

Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7

I mean I can understand the attachment to a particular person but obviously the hunger for others starts setting in.

So I would suggest you get all the oral you can get behind closed doors.


haha.. well.. hmmm

 

[Flambeur]

Originally Posted by TMMKC

I wish my wife felt that way.

so this one time, while we're *******, current g/f goes "wouldn't it be nice to have another girl licking your balls while we do this"....

 

[kwilkinson]

Cheating is bad. Cheaters are bad.

 

[Neo_Version 7]

If you have a conscience, yeah.