Charity

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  1. heavyd

    heavyd Senior member

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    This issue arose when I applied to the private club: Charitable contiutions. They wanted details...

    We give, but not a heck of a lot. I know the "rule" is 10% which is a huge amount of money for 2 mid 30's professionals. Is 10% ever the norm by today's standards? What do you guys think?

    I am referring to working people and not family wealth. I know people who have family foundations who just allocated a percentage of the interest to charity. That does not impede paying one's bills.

    Thoughts from the 'older' SF community??
     


  2. dah328

    dah328 Senior member

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  3. lawyerdad

    lawyerdad Senior member

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    Ditto on dah's comments. It is - or should be - an intensely personal choice. There's no rule, except to the extent rules or guidelines may be set by one's religion or whatever. People of all economic classes give far more than 10%, and people of all economic classes give far less than 10%. Others prefer to give instead (or in addition) time, expertise, etc.
    I will say that if you and your wife decide on a % that seems appropriate to you, it's much easier it you just make a commitment and set that as a "hard" budget item, with monthly automatic deductions or something similar. If you never "see" the money, you don't miss it as much. When it's not built into your budget and you've already mentally allocated that money elsewhere, it's a lot harder.
     


  4. Quirk

    Quirk Senior member

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    Tithing is a standard many very religious people set for themselves, but I've never heard of any secular general standard. I would guess that your club cares where your money goes more than it cares exactly how much of it goes there.
     


  5. itsstillmatt

    itsstillmatt The Liberator Dubiously Honored

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    I tend to give time and money to those things that I believe in. At the end of the year I let my accountant figure out how much etc.
     


  6. Matt

    Matt [email protected]

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    one of my favorite things about my job and where i live is the ability I have to give to people in need. In actual contributions from me/my company, very little. Some occassional pro bono work, but not much. In directing my clients toward organisations and people in need, lost count of what we have overseen and organised. Its a nice feeling.
     


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    everyweek my hole family gives something in the collection plate at church
     


  8. mrpologuy

    mrpologuy Senior member

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    I enjoy giving to The Human Fund.[​IMG]
     


  9. Concordia

    Concordia Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    I know people who have family foundations who just allocated a percentage of the interest to charity.

    Just to clarify that, private foundations have to give 5% of assets (not income) annually to charity. In practice, this means that without subsequent gifts, most foundations will erode in purchasing power after inflation and even a few bits of bad luck take their bite.

    Practice on annual giving varies by region, religious background, and class-- not always as you'd expect. In our own family, we put our daughter on a $1/week allowance (now $5/month) with the proviso that 25% goes to charity. Around November, we start talking seriously about where her $13 will go for Christmas. She also sees us plan gifts of various sorts, although we don't discuss amounts with her.

    On a different scale, and in a different time (pre-income-tax), when my grandfather came into his patrimony he was simultaneously presented with the wish of his father that 10% of its income go to charitable good works. That's a hard nut to crack for anyone working their way out of college loans, but I've actually met some who've done it, even while living close to poverty. Those givers tend to have close ties to a church, however.

    I've never heard of a private club asking about this, and I can imagine that they have at least one of several agendas:

    Do you give at all? (Some are perfectly content to let others fund the gracious parts of their life.)

    Where do you give? This says a lot about your passions and priorities. I suppose a gimlet-eyed admissions committee might want to know if you were an Amnesty International do-gooder or a Lyric Opera social climber--to put the negative spin on both worthwhile gifts. In the very bad old days, it might have been a way of figuring out your religious/ethnic background if that weren't obvious from your last name or appearance.

    In these more enlightened (!) times, there may be a positive interest in finding out whether your interests overlap with club members'. From what I've seen from working with non-profits there, Chicago has a real civic culture that encourages volunteering and board service among the business community.
     


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    Vintage Gent Senior member

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    I enjoy giving to The Human Fund.[​IMG]

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    Tomasso Senior member

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    I've never heard of a private club asking about this


    It's not uncommon, especially for Jewish clubs.
     


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