Casual Winter Wedding Attire

[Ncatanza05]

So I am attending a wedding this December which is very small and informal. The reception is at a private room in a restaurant and following the event we are going to a lounge/club for an after party. I am trying to purchase something new, but am at a loss for what to buy. I want to avoid wearing a typical suit and rather something a little more unique. Was thinking a dinner jacket with some wool trousers, but from what I have researched on this board that is a big no no. Attached some links to the jackets I was considering.

Sartoria Partenopea Slim-Fit Burgundy Wool Dinner Jacket 40R Eu50 Tuxedo Blazer | eBay

Sartoria Partenopea Dinner Jacket. Plum burgundy wool-blend fabric in a subtle check pattern. Contrasting black satin lapel facings. Slim, tailored fit through the chest and across the shoulders. Full canvas construction.

www.ebay.com

New D'AVENZA Blue Dotted Silk Tuxedo Sport Coat Blazer Size 50/40 R $3995 | eBay

Blue Silk Fabric with Purple Dotted Pattern. Full Canvas Construction. Shoulder 18". Length 29.75". Lining: 100% Cupro Bemberg. New with D'AVENZA Hanger. Full Lining. Jetted Pockets.

www.ebay.com

Any thoughts?

 

[Andy57]

Any thoughts?

Yes. Don't wear a dinner jacket unless it's a black tie event.

Take your cue from the wedding invitation. If you're unsure, ask. If it is truly an informal wedding, wear a jacket and tie. Do not attempt to be unique. A wedding is not about you, unless you're the one actually getting married. Be respectful, don't try to stand out, don't try to make a statement. It's not your day.

 

[kazusano]

And even if it is you actually getting married, it’s still not about you, it’s about your bride, so you should still not try to stand out. You should be a nice backdrop for your beautiful bride. (Assuming it’s a heterosexual wedding. I have no idea/opinions as to the rules that apply to weddings other than ones between heterosexual couples because I have no relevant experiences.). But the original poster said “attending,” so I agree. Don’t stand out. Wear jacket and tie, unless when you ask, they suggest even more casual. Then do what they ask.

 

[Joffrey]

Because I like the sound of my typing: Dress appropriately which means suit, nice shirt, nice tie, simple pocket square, polished shoes. You'd fit right in at the wedding, private dinner reception, and night club/lounge afterparty. Enjoy.

 

[minimal1]

I say unless the invitation states otherwise, cocktail attire should be assumed. If you think they want something more casual, ask. Just because the wedding is small and informal doesn’t mean the dress will be.