Jose - Although I do agree that you do seem to obsess too much over minute details, I do have great respect for your ability to filter out all of the crap spewed your way to get to the good friendly advice given by some. You're like a boxer who is improving despite daily ass-kickings and still manages to remain standing and come back for more. Even if the pocket square/blazer at the bar was "over the top", who really cares? Would that be worse than the guy in shorts and flip-flops? I'd rather be overdressed than underdressed even if I end up looking like I'm trying too hard. By the way, it seems to me that some people feel the need to respond to every one of Jose's posts because it's an easy way to increase their own post count. Who gives a rat's asshole what his threads started vs. threads replied to or whatever the fuck that stat was?