Discussion in 'General Chat' started by ClarkKent, Jun 9, 2013.
Prob and Clarke,please try hugging it out. You are both good people.
Having 'looks' or not having looks...what is the difference? Both existences have their share of problems. I would encourage both of you to go to church, especially a church that offers some social programs beyond the sunday service. In other words, a way to meet people under better circumstances.
What kind of people go to church? Guess what, the same messed up people that befire in their lives, didn't go to church and lived life on their own terms and got their butts kicked by it, but now want something better in life; people who got off the merry-go-round and want something more meaningful than a f**k buddy.
In the 'looks' department, I have been told I am a 6.5 out of 10. 95% of the people I have desired to be with, said no to me. It used to hurt my feelings for years..decades! Well I finally woke up and focused on that 5% that saw me for who I am, and not what I look like. I can tell you both that I have been much happier since recognizing this. There is inward beauty and virtue and there most certainly are a lot of people out there who have this and recognize it in others. Maybe you both have been looking in all the wrong places and maybe it is time to seek greener pastures.
Prob...I don't want to get into it here and please do not mention it, but you will remember my 'other personal medical issues' from another thread 2 years ago. Those issues place me in a hellworld of my own. I do not have the funds to deal with those problems and therefore have to make the best of what I have.
Everyone suffers in their own way, rich or poor, pretty or not. Take comfort in the fact that someone somewhere has it worse than us and would gladly change places with us.
All I can do is to be the best person I can be and hope that someone someday will recognize me for who I am. Now I have never seen either of your photos, but still, I encourage you both to not give up on yourselves or humanity. I wish you both peace and if it matters, I am happy you are both here on our beloved forum.
MoL, thank you for believing in me.
Prob, it is my honour to do so.
Y'know, I've been mulling this business over, and I think some people of both sexes are more sexually charismatic than good-looking and vice-versa. I don't know if it can be cultivated or developed, but they just have "it." I can think of one fellow I worked with who was, well, decent looking, did not have a particularly good physique, but he just had an easy manner and charm that would cause women who were icy with most of the men, myself included, to melt and become fluttery and flirty in his presence. To our amusement, he was married, and his wife was a real drip. I can think of another fellow who recently met his Maker. I didn't know him well, but he was about 5'5" and nondescript in his looks. Reportedly, he was a very successful serial adulterer until he wound up on the wrong end of a .44 Magnum in the hands of an enraged husband. His last and final inamorata was pretty good looking to judge from the one photo I saw of her.
I can think of some women I have known who by any objective standard were very lovely women who had a certainly coldness of demeanor and manner that just rendered them very un-sexy, while I have known others who were not nearly so good-looking who were terrific turn-ons.
It occurs to me, since "Clark Kent" is the author of this thread (and a feisty one he has turned out to be), that I have been told on several occasions in the course of my life that I resembled mild-mannered Clark Kent. I like to think I've had a fairly imposing physique, but I don't think I am quite in the same street as Superman!
wait, you want piobs sausage in your ass?
I give this public meltdown three stars out of five.
My undying thanks to Piobaire for driving you away.
I would love to see this thread recover....so back to the originating question:
Can you actually become a handsome guy or is it mostly genetics?
I believe this is entirely possible. Beauty truly is in the eyes of the beholder. Therefore, beauty or handsomness, is relative to the eyes of those who can see it. As long as one tries their best, there is provision for many types of handsomeness. 20 years ago, I was clowning around with my girlfriend at the time saying to her that I was better looking than James Bond only without his money. One of her neices who was in the room (she was only 7 then) said to me with a rather intense look in her eyes and a smile, 'You are not a handsome man but you are a very beautiful man.' I was both crushed and flattered. How could I be offended? I smiled in disbelief. My girlfriend laughed.
OP, you are probably as stupid as the thread title suggests.
driving me away from my thread? when did that ever become a reality bitch? go kill yourself along with the 4 phaggots that liked your post, and please, be thankful a guy as great as me actually acknowledged you. You don't want it with me bro, seriously, look at your bro Pio, he can hardly walk, he didn't pepper his angus and look what happened to him, he is limping and has to use a wheel chair. Do you want to end up like Pio or General Zod? none of you do, so poof, go away, and let a boss have a discussion on his thread
now back to the topic at hand like a boss
I asked a girl what she finds attractive in a guy, she said
nice skin (no acne or anything)
and can't be Indian or Asian
so I think her opinion gives some insight into what women find attractive in a man
So you're basically fucked on all fronts.
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