FlyingHorker
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I know nothing about mod style, but @Thin White Duke might be able to help you out.
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I'm currently 18 years old, going on 19, living at my parent's house, and on the dole.
I have an income of about 150 dollars a week, more or less, and most of that will go to buying my own groceries and car fuel. Needless to say, I'm at quite the financial disadvantage amongst the most better-dressed people I see in discussions of style online.
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In short, I'm unequivocally fugged six ways from sunday.
So with all that in mind, it stands to reason that I obviously come from a very different place, financially and culturally, with a different philosophy on style than most people invested in classic men's style, such as vintage collectors, sprezzatura fans, and ivy-league WASP wannabes. If the username wasn't a tip-off, I'm a big fan of the style of punk-rockers like johnny rotten and other countercultural groups from the 60s to 80s, such as Teddy Boys, Mods, and so on, in stark contrast to the majority of people who draw inspiration from italian industrialists, 1930s esquire illustrations, and other bougie **** like that. But if there's one thing that I bet most of you can agree with me ON, it's that GQ and all of their skinny-fit cover models are lame normie horseshit.
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soz i'm from 4chans /fa/ board so i'm just getting acclimated
i was mostly joking and being edgy for the sake of it, sorry if you were offended by that
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Whenever things get difficult (which they always are) I tend to procrastinate dealing with **** by just ruminating and rehearsing an image of myself as a cooler, more successful person, mostly in terms of fashion. I think that's what they maladaptive daydreaming.
Could you please elaborate on what you mean by basics? If it's generic "navy blazer + blue ocbd + khaki chinos" advice that I've heard a million times, I think I'm good.
As for inspiration, I mean, it would probably be more concise to link my pinterest moodboard, but I guess I'll pick out some specifics.
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the punk approach to separates on the left, and full suits on the right,
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Slim black suits, crazy hair, and guyliner. A formidable and slick look. Clarke (left) has a more "esquire man" thing going on, though.
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Wes isn't quite as edgy or rule-breaking, but he's got a sort of charming homeliness to how he dresses.
The burgundy corduroy suit + pink shirt is something I hope to emulate someday.
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Entirely different characters, but the same principle of a carefree, minimalist look, with casual shirting, two-piece suit, and loose tie. Note the 4 button closure on Doctor Who's suit. It's very mod, and it's not something you can get OTR. A 3 button suit is a safer middle ground, but I wanna try a 4 button at some point. Maybe with the corduroy suit?
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Probably the strangest one in this entire list. This guy is a minor character in HBO's Gotham, which as you would expect has a lot of wild and colorful costume designs but this one in particular stuck out to me.
The fact that he almost exclusively wears these stingy little batwing bowties with art-deco patterns and embelishments really inspired me to buy a bulk lot of them myself, as there's something sort of charmingly kitschy and uncool (ala pee-wee herman) about them in a way that strangely appeals to me, in a meta-ironic sort of way.
It's also sort of an ivy-ish esquire man look (if I'm using that term correctly) with how he mixes patterns and wears odd vests. You can see the inspiration for the green gingham-check suit I linked in OP here.
As I've said, and I'm sure you get the picture by now, I'm not really aiming to be the "best dressed guy in the room" or anything like that, and I'm pretty sure of what I like. I mean, you're right, I'm not in a positon to start buying suits right now, but I already know what I want, and like I said I'm sort of intruiged with AliExpress as an avenue to get it, once it becomes reasonable for me to do so. Still, since I don't want to be arrogant, I'm open to whatever advice you have.
I'm getting a pretty good idea of what you are looking for, style-wise. The problem is that a lot of this stuff is fashion from a very narrow slice of the 20th century, and probably won't be easy to find in stores. This gets outside my area of expertise pretty quick, but do you have Topman in NZ? That might be the most mainstream maker that makes anything in this vibe. Otherwise, maybe an online store that specializes in Mod styles or (and this miiiight be a stretch but it also might be genius) a steampunk costume store. Some of this stuff gets pretty wild but the more dialed back stuff might be good for use as regular clothes.
A word of warning though that people throw around here, which might apply to you too even if you don't want to dress like us, if your wardrobe is small, then unusual garments like what you are looking at will stand out more and people will remember it. For some reason, it's offputting for some people to see a person repeat a garment, especially if it's very frequently. The general recommendation for a growing wardrobe is instead is to start with something that no one will remember, like solid blues and grays, and then build from there. Doesn't have to be tailoring either, though I guess that factors pretty heavily into Teddy Boy style. All that said, if that blue suit you have is what you like, then it's not actually that crazy at all. I have a suit in a similar color and pattern and wear it all the time with no one even really noticing it on me at all. Like, I'll ask people around me to close their eyes and tell me what I am wearing, and they'll say something like "Uh...a blazer or something? With jeans?"
Sorry. I wasn't trying to suggest that you should adopt the "basic bastard" wardrobe of chinos, ocbds, desert boots and blazers. I think what I meant is that, in light of the fact that your wardrobe is pretty barren as it is (except for sweatpants and pajamas), you should focus on building up the more casual side of your wardrobe before jumping straight into tailoring. I think, at your age and current income level, you will get a lot more use out of doing that anyways. Tailoring is expensive, hard to fit correctly, and time consuming to get right and you are guaranteed to waste a lot of money trying to find what works for you—I know I did! It took me like 15 years of trying to hit my stride on tailored clothing.
The photos that you've posted are all very good, and indicate to me that you have good taste, which is most of the battle. If you favor the punk rock/mod aesthetic, I'd push you toward developing your casual/streetwear wardrobe in that direction, which I think will look good on your skinny frame. Like consider picking up a pair of black skinny jeans or drainpipe trousers, and leather chelseas, side zips, or military boots to get you out of sweatpants and canvas sneakers. Those can be had second-hand or you can get cheap versions at like a Zara or H&M or something (it's fine to cheap out on this stuff when you're just starting to experiment and find what works for you). You can pair those with t-shirts or the button-down + vest/cardigan combo you posted in that first picture above.
I also agree with everything that @stuffedsuperdud has said about getting your life in order before spending all of your resources on clothing... but recognizing that you need some clothes, the above is where I'd start building.
I'm not "in pain", and I wouldn't call it lashing out, I'm just a natural contrarian who likes to be a bit emphatic. I'm already quite aware of where I am in my current life situation, and I'm already in the process of figuring out how to improve things. To be honest, I know full well that 4chan's /fa/ board is a bunch of assholes, and I'm under no illusion that if I just try to be "edgy" enough that they'll like me. So I've already stopped. Why do ya think I came here?Again not to put on my Tony Robbins hat (cringe...) but since you touched on some of your current motivations:
It's pretty clear that you're struggling with various misfortunes and disadvantages right now and that sucks, but I think a lot of us can tell you from experience that lashing out at people (including GQ stylists, strangers at Cannes in bad "black tie," and *in bitchy Trump voice* Chaaiii-na), buying new toys (a StyleForum favorite!), and having a little fantasy about a different life might temporarily numb your your pain but ultimately only prolongs and grows it. A more effective strategy would perhaps be to identify factors that backed you into your current corner and devise a strategy based on controlling all the factors that you can control in order to work your way out of it. I would probably also refocus the time you're spending on 4chan and similar things as that crowd, including the fashion-inclined guys there, is just a bunch of colossal assholes dragging each other down, and the site itself, like many products and services that cater to dissatisfied edgelords, has a business model built around validating and extending your pain and anger. You don't need that. You're also only 18, the perfect time to stop hanging out with emotionally stunted online personas and grow into your own person in the real world.
thanks for the referral, I'll check them out.I understand the desire to get into mod and Ivy suits, but I think you're going to find it very difficult to do so successfully right now given your age, income restrictions, and location (much easier to buy and sell this stuff on Ebay if you're in the U.S.). I also think it's going to be tough to find mod-era suits second-hand in NZ. But when you do get around to it, there's a company called Thick as Thieves that used to be very active here that makes very mod-inspired MTM suits for a relatively affordable price (~$500). Check them out: https://thickasthievesla.com/
I really hope you give it the benefit of the doubt, because I think there genuinely are a lot of proper craftsmen behind some of the stuff on there
ok i fixed it, should work now.Is this just conjecture, or have you tried buying something?
Edit: also I can't see that wish list
ok i fixed it, should work now.
what? i set it to public hang on"Sorry, this is not a public wish list"
ok i'm pretty sure it workswhat? i set it to public hang on
try again?