Refer to my epithet. I would wear stuff that just I like, but that is dumb to do 100%. I think people thought I was a little gay last summer, even girls, because I wore more than 1 bright color per outfit. One needs to wear stuff that is socially acceptable, while also being totally unique, something that isn't easy to do. People who don't know a lot about clothes will not be able to put their finger on what makes your look unique, but I think most would definitely notice your unique style in the broader sense. I think people in general, you don't have to be a rockstar or dress in a crazy gettup, you just have to be interesting and somehow standout. These days, wearing clothes that actually fit probably makes you stand out quite a bit! I'm not opposed to dressing up to get chicks every once in a while in certain settings, but really you need to find yourself and your own style and be confident doing so.