Here's something I thought you would all find funny. Had a buyer send be a very sincere email, saying sorry the shirt was too small didn't realize it, please cancel my order. All sounded fine, thought it was odd that someone with almost 2000 feedback would make a rookie mistake. So I looked at his feedback, checked the items he recently bought, and he's bought not one, not 2, but 5 other shirts the same size in the past couple weeks. So he was completely full of shit and just either out of money or decided he didn't want it. I will cancel his order, because... why not, right? It's a great shirt, it'll sell. Plus, as everyone says here, the buyer really does have the upper hand, and I don't want negative things on my feedback. I did send him a response to his cancel request with links to the 5 other shirts he just bought. My response: You do realize I can see in your feedback that you've bought 5 shirts around this size in the past couple weeks? http://www.ebay.com/itm/290912865320 http://www.ebay.com/itm/330918607729 http://www.ebay.com/itm/360646205829 http://www.ebay.com/itm/181129895681 http://www.ebay.com/itm/200918119409 Is there a way for him to formally request that I cancel the transaction, and not just a message? I can see myself getting really jaded, really quick with these idiots.