brothers...i wanna to cry now

[fender06]

yesterday, one friend of mine told me that he met a girl looks like a girl we were studying together in primary school.

he asked me her MSN, and i was too stupid and honest, i gave it to him
and yesterday evening, i told the girl ( she and I are good friend, but i love her...)
about giving her MSN to my friend, and i can't believe that she told me she also saw that boy in a restaurant ( so they actually met each other at the same time, but just can't remember each other immediately)

the girl then asked me to give my friend's MSN to her
so now the situation is they seem getting close quickly...
i can see my friend wrote comment in the girl's xanga...

damn...what can i do??? i am seeing my friend getting with my target...

 

[trampish]

Talk to him about it. If he's willing to continue and jeopardize your friendship over it, then you'll know where his loyalties lie. If he backs off, great. If not, you can talk to her about it. Be honest and forthcoming.

Bros before hos?

 

[fender06]

Originally Posted by trampish

Talk to him about it. If he's willing to continue and jeopardize your friendship over it, then you'll know where his loyalties lie. If he backs off, great. If not, you can talk to her about it. Be honest and forthcoming.

Bros before hos?

if i ask him to stop action, and he tells the girl, then i will be totally lose..

 

[tiger02]

Originally Posted by trampish

Talk to him about it. If he's willing to continue and jeopardize your friendship over it, then you'll know where his loyalties lie. If he backs off, great. If not, you can talk to her about it. Be honest and forthcoming. Bros before hos?
Bros before hos goes both ways. If she digs him, adjust sites onto new target, and don't let it screw up your friendship. If you're still hung up on a girl you were studying in primary school, I hope you're about 14. Otherwise...dude, you need an intervention. Tom

 

[fender06]

Originally Posted by tiger02

Bros before hos goes both ways. If she digs him, adjust sites onto new target, and don't let it screw up your friendship.

If you're still hung up on a girl you were studying in primary school, I hope you're about 14. Otherwise...dude, you need an intervention.

Tom

actuallu, i am 19 now..i met her in primary four.

 

[tiger02]

Originally Posted by fender06

actuallu, i am 19 now..i met her in primary four.
So 9 years ago?

 

[Stax]

move on

 

[rnoldh]

Originally Posted by fender06

i can see my friend wrote comment in the girl's xanga...

damn...what can i do??? i am seeing my friend getting with my target...

I'm a lot older than you. Before you know it, this incident, and this girl will be a distant memeory!

BTW: What is a xanga? It sounds like something getting to know in a woman!

 

[GQgeek]

Originally Posted by fender06

actuallu, i am 19 now..i met her in primary four.

Where's the Ed and Matt tagteam when someone else is acting stupid?

 

[lost in va]

Originally Posted by Stax

move on
The answer was as simple as those two words.

 

[tiger02]

Originally Posted by GQgeek

Where's the Ed and Matt tagteam when someone else is acting stupid?

They only flame trolls

 

[sygyzy]

I can't understand what the OP is saying.

 

[Eason]

not worth losing a friend over... you need to understand that she doesn't like you, and then find another girl.

 

[JetBlast]

move on

Easier said than done, mate.

Let me get things straight here about what the OP is saying. He and his friend met a girl in primary school and the friend is getting with her now?
Have they known each other all the way since primary, or did they just meet again?

What I would do in this situation is not ditch your friend just because he is getting her, instead I would just wait for another girl to come along. Eventually I am sure she will either be with you, or she will become a figment of the past. I know it's not easy to do, I'm going through the same thing and it tears you up. Just tread lightly and try not to lose your friend.

You can give me a shout on AIM if you want, screen name is in my profile.

JB

 

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