Best time to talk over disagreements with your wife/GF/SO?

[Benzito]

After you've just given her a monster O. She probably won't be listening to you, anyway.

 

[AnsonHeitman]

Originally Posted by DBowers

Fellow SF'ers: Which do you prefer?

I usually like to get my sleep first, then talk over things in the morning when I tend to think more rationally. (My gf thinks otherwise - she can't sleep with the problem still looming so I often end up in late-night talks that got us nowhere.)

I'm with your GF... I can't sleep without talking through it. My GF on the other hand prefers to sleep on it.

Trade?

 

[willpower]

Originally Posted by JLibourel

Women are always pissed off about something. Just ignore it and it will go away, only to be promptly replaced by something else she's pissed off about. As one good friend of mine said, "They hate peace."

+1000000000000000000000000000

This belongs in a "things my blogger taught me" book.

 

[Svenn]

If you're talking about settling an argument, it should be finished as quickly as possible from the time it arose. Too many people just get tired and dismiss it with some sort of "I don't wanna talk about it anymore" which doesn't solve anything. However the instances where two rational adults would just happen to have two equally legitimate interests at odds with each other is very rare, so usually someone is being an irrational.

In terms of delivering bad news, I try to do it in the morning when the workday is about to begin and the natural momentum of the day can give them some perspective over how insignificant the 'bad' news really is; which is in reality the characteristic of all news, since we're all bound to die at any given moment...

 

[Hombre Secreto]

You ain't gonna win an argument with a woman EVER! Always discuss over a fine dinner.