HorseTearz
New Member
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2017
- Messages
- 2
- Reaction score
- 1
First post on here. I may post this on a few other men's style forums, so apologies if you frequent other sites and come across this same post -- I swear I'm not spamming!
So, I have big, wide feet. I generally wear a size 12 or 12.5, and always a wide. That alone limits the choices of 'off the rack' shoes I can find that are comfortable, relatively affordable and stylish. But, I have another problem, I have what I believe is referred to as a big/high instep (see picture below).
As a result, shoe shopping -- most especially for dress or business casual shoes -- has become an exhausting Goldilocks exercise. If the length is right, the width is too tight. If the length and width are just right the part of the shoe that covers my instep is too tight and wearing the shoes all days leaves me in pain. I've come to the conclusion that (a). I'm not finding 'off the rack' shoes that can work for someone with size 12 wide feet and with a high/steep instep and (b). I need to consider bespoke / custom-made shoes. I've always assumed that bespoke shoes are going to be insanely expensive, but for a good pair of work-appropriate shoes, I'm willing to pay up now.
So, any advice on one's first-time experience attempting to acquire some bespoke dress shoes (loafers and lace-ups, preferably)? What should be my realistic budget per pair of shoes? Will I be able to get anything halfway decent for less than $300? I'm not a techie, corporate lawyer or investment banker, so the idea of paying $500+ per pair of shoes is just... not reasonable for me.
Alternatively, are you a gentleman with large wide feet and a high instep? Have you found any particular 'off the rack' brands that don't squeeze your feet and which also don't look like they were prescribed by an orthopedist?
I like a more modern look for my dress / business casual shoes, as opposed to a classic 'old world' look. Think Kenneth Cole Reaction. But, at this point, I'll take what I can get.
So, I have big, wide feet. I generally wear a size 12 or 12.5, and always a wide. That alone limits the choices of 'off the rack' shoes I can find that are comfortable, relatively affordable and stylish. But, I have another problem, I have what I believe is referred to as a big/high instep (see picture below).
As a result, shoe shopping -- most especially for dress or business casual shoes -- has become an exhausting Goldilocks exercise. If the length is right, the width is too tight. If the length and width are just right the part of the shoe that covers my instep is too tight and wearing the shoes all days leaves me in pain. I've come to the conclusion that (a). I'm not finding 'off the rack' shoes that can work for someone with size 12 wide feet and with a high/steep instep and (b). I need to consider bespoke / custom-made shoes. I've always assumed that bespoke shoes are going to be insanely expensive, but for a good pair of work-appropriate shoes, I'm willing to pay up now.
So, any advice on one's first-time experience attempting to acquire some bespoke dress shoes (loafers and lace-ups, preferably)? What should be my realistic budget per pair of shoes? Will I be able to get anything halfway decent for less than $300? I'm not a techie, corporate lawyer or investment banker, so the idea of paying $500+ per pair of shoes is just... not reasonable for me.
Alternatively, are you a gentleman with large wide feet and a high instep? Have you found any particular 'off the rack' brands that don't squeeze your feet and which also don't look like they were prescribed by an orthopedist?
I like a more modern look for my dress / business casual shoes, as opposed to a classic 'old world' look. Think Kenneth Cole Reaction. But, at this point, I'll take what I can get.
Last edited: