I know a guy from high school who's getting married later on this year. Not sure if I can say he's a friend, but we have many mutual friends whom I'm much closer with. BUT, I'm not invited to the wedding in a tropical location. The best man just asked me to attend his bachelor party. Currently ambivalent in going, it's not the usual last hurrah place (ex. Vegas, Brazil, Nola, Mexico) , more of a retiree/golfing type location in the middle of nowhere. I see the guy roughly about once a year. If you were in my shoes, would you bother to go to the bachelor party at all?