Onya Romp....you' got it! (and moon tan just means u hav healthy IQ!) Truly truly life is TOO short to be a people pleaser - as against healthy SELF EXPRESSION. (and as a teacher I know just how precious CREATIVITY is!) If this means being in the van with a bit of STYLE EXTROVERSION - well that just makes the world a better place! ..... regardless of the chicken hearted naysayers! (usually just projecting anyways) We really have to champion our inner self...to do otherwise is a - sort of - self betrayal. Yeah - sometimes need to self protect also - not too much tho! How do I know all this! well... I've transgresssed here MYSELF at different times...and increasingly regard it as wasted 'joi de vivre'! (omg this turning into a preach/ rant) Life is for LIVING Go forth and express thyself! NOW!