Van Veen
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I would just like to make the point that in this day and age, weddings aren't implicitly formal. I would not consider it a formal event unless most of the guests are dressed formally, which (at least in middle class American society) is usually too much to ask. So, if the groom and wedding party wear morning dress while none of the guests do so, it's more like a "pretend formal" event and the groom and groomsmen are playing dress-up or wearing a costume. If you don't mind that, that's fine; wear whatever you want. But personally, formal/semi-formal was never on the table for my wedding since I did not want to be dressed more formally than the guests.
To buchoelbrusco: There is a wedding thread here you may be interested in.
I say don't be put off, morning suit is still best. But it's not my wedding. So prepare yourself for the rest of your life and do what she wants
But if you do go with a lounge suit, braces are always good. Just nobody should ever see them.
I would just like to make the point that in this day and age, weddings aren't implicitly formal. I would not consider it a formal event unless most of the guests are dressed formally, which (at least in middle class American society) is usually too much to ask. So, if the groom and wedding party wear morning dress while none of the guests do so, it's more like a "pretend formal" event and the groom and groomsmen are playing dress-up or wearing a costume. If you don't mind that, that's fine; wear whatever you want. But personally, formal/semi-formal was never on the table for my wedding since I did not want to be dressed more formally than the guests.
To buchoelbrusco: There is a wedding thread here you may be interested in.
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