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Another Ridiculous Texting Question (Girls)

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by panther2k, Apr 14, 2011.

  1. panther2k

    panther2k Member

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    I dislike text interactions w/ girls so I need the advice of those more experienced/skilled w/ that type of game.

    Texted a girl a few days ago to see if she wanted to hang out tonight (Thursday). No response so I assume she is a write-off. She ends up responding this morning, which annoys me, apologizing and asking what time I'm done with work. i would normally just ignore but given that I would still like to [​IMG] inside of her ASAP, what is the proper response here?
     
  2. Neo_Version 7

    Neo_Version 7 Senior member

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    Um..make plans to see her maybe?
     
  3. zalb916

    zalb916 Senior member

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    what is the proper response here?

    Call her. Don't text.

    How many times do people on this forum need to be told to man-up and call a girl instead of text?
     
  4. Neo_Version 7

    Neo_Version 7 Senior member

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    How many times do people on this forum need to be told to man-up and call a girl instead of text?

    This isn't the 1950s.
     
  5. in stitches

    in stitches Senior member

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    i think your [​IMG] placement needs help.

    also if you choose to text expect a delayed responce at least 50% of the time
     
  6. Neo_Version 7

    Neo_Version 7 Senior member

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    also if you choose to text expect a delayed responce at least 50% of the time
    If you PM, the percentage rises to 90%. [​IMG]
     
  7. Eason

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    I think a lot of people don't like calling because they're afraid of instant rejection. Also, if you call and they don't pick up, you're SOL.
     
  8. zalb916

    zalb916 Senior member

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    People don't call, because they are pussies. It's pretty simple.
     
  9. in stitches

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    If you PM, the percentage rises to 90%. [​IMG]

    [​IMG]
     
  10. VelvetGreen

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    Call her and put her on the spot. Texts are a waste of time unless you have her hooked and it's purely logistics.
     
  11. in stitches

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    Call her and put her on the spot. Texts are a waste of time unless you have her hooked and it's purely logistics.

    if she is the texting type she may be put off by a call or find it too aggresive in which case you are shooting yourself in the foot with an unexpected call.

    im not the texting generation, but i know from my younger brothers if you want to get it on with those type, you best learn quick how to play the texting/sexting game
     
  12. Teger

    Teger Senior member

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    this 2011, people text. accept it. it's not about being a pussy.
     
  13. Harold falcon

    Harold falcon Senior member

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    I've never texted a girl while I was sober. the drunk texts have never worked out in my favour.
     
  14. Teger

    Teger Senior member

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    how old are you?
     
  15. in stitches

    in stitches Senior member

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    how old are you?

    he is an accomplished attorney, so like 26ish
     
  16. texas_jack

    texas_jack Senior member

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    Just tell her you're busy and then set something up for another time. If you let her get away with being a flake she'll always assume she doesn't have to commit to do anything with you. Or if you don't care just go meet her.
     
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    Just tell her you're busy and then set something up for another time. If you let her get away with being a flake she'll always assume she doesn't have to commit to do anything with you. Or if you don't care just go meet her.

    How is she a flake? She doesn't owe him anything, not even a response. By responding to hang out, by definition, means she isn't a flake.
     
  19. hoit1981

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    Just phone her, meet her and then bang her... easy! [​IMG] Although, if you're really asking for this sort of advice on the internets maybe you wont find it particularly easy???
     
  20. mm84321

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    Write her a formal letter on expensive stationary.
     

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