Eason
Bicurious Racist
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Ok, so here's the situation I'm currently in with my GF:
I have two jobs, and I can only get vacation once every 6 months due to the school semester schedule. I'm taking a total of 11 days off from the 3rd to the 15th from my main job, teaching at a public school, but still teaching at my second job, 90 minutes a day teaching at my gf and I's private institute. We told my brother (in Beijing) that on my vacation, we would go visit him. We decided to go from the 5th to the 12th.
My GF doesn't have a lot of money right now (can't afford the plane ticket) so I said I'd buy for her. Her parents would also be angry with her because the economy is struggling and she just started the private institute business and needs to spend time on it. I told her to ask her parents several weeks ago, but she kept procrastinating. She asked her mom about going to china last night, and her mom was very angry and disappointed with her, saying she had no responsibility, did whatever she wanted, etc, so she decided not to go. The private student's parents' are also annoyed that I want to take a week of vacation off, but **** them it's my only vacation in 6 months, and I'm getting substitutes anyway.
So, because I already confirmed everything with my brother, he already got us an apartment in beijing, and he flew back there for the sole reason of getting ready for us, otherwise he wouldn't even be in beijing at this tiem of year. My gf suggested going for only one weekend- my brother totally rejected this because it's a waste of money, I agree but I'm still willing to spend $1000 for my gf and I to go, but my brother just wont' let me waste money like that. Same deal for Monday-Friday there, too short a time he says. If I go from Monday to monday, he will pay for half of my plane ticket and take care of the apt and food costs while I am there. I told him I was in a tough spot, but I said okay because I haven't seen my brother in a long time, and this is my only chance. I would like to stay for a shorter time, but he really won't allow it. It is only Monday the 5th to Friday the 12th, so that's 5 days my gf can't see me.
So, my gf flips out and cries all night, and says how can I go to Beijing for so long without her, for my whole vacation (it's 5~7 whole/partial days away out of 11) and that I definitely don't' care about her. She says let's break up when I try and talk to her, two times, and refuses to see that I don't really have a choice. My brother wouldn't allow me to go for less time, and if I canceled the trip, he would blame my GF for it and never forgive her- not a good start since I was planning on marrying her. So, yeah. ****. What the ****.
I have two jobs, and I can only get vacation once every 6 months due to the school semester schedule. I'm taking a total of 11 days off from the 3rd to the 15th from my main job, teaching at a public school, but still teaching at my second job, 90 minutes a day teaching at my gf and I's private institute. We told my brother (in Beijing) that on my vacation, we would go visit him. We decided to go from the 5th to the 12th.
My GF doesn't have a lot of money right now (can't afford the plane ticket) so I said I'd buy for her. Her parents would also be angry with her because the economy is struggling and she just started the private institute business and needs to spend time on it. I told her to ask her parents several weeks ago, but she kept procrastinating. She asked her mom about going to china last night, and her mom was very angry and disappointed with her, saying she had no responsibility, did whatever she wanted, etc, so she decided not to go. The private student's parents' are also annoyed that I want to take a week of vacation off, but **** them it's my only vacation in 6 months, and I'm getting substitutes anyway.
So, because I already confirmed everything with my brother, he already got us an apartment in beijing, and he flew back there for the sole reason of getting ready for us, otherwise he wouldn't even be in beijing at this tiem of year. My gf suggested going for only one weekend- my brother totally rejected this because it's a waste of money, I agree but I'm still willing to spend $1000 for my gf and I to go, but my brother just wont' let me waste money like that. Same deal for Monday-Friday there, too short a time he says. If I go from Monday to monday, he will pay for half of my plane ticket and take care of the apt and food costs while I am there. I told him I was in a tough spot, but I said okay because I haven't seen my brother in a long time, and this is my only chance. I would like to stay for a shorter time, but he really won't allow it. It is only Monday the 5th to Friday the 12th, so that's 5 days my gf can't see me.
So, my gf flips out and cries all night, and says how can I go to Beijing for so long without her, for my whole vacation (it's 5~7 whole/partial days away out of 11) and that I definitely don't' care about her. She says let's break up when I try and talk to her, two times, and refuses to see that I don't really have a choice. My brother wouldn't allow me to go for less time, and if I canceled the trip, he would blame my GF for it and never forgive her- not a good start since I was planning on marrying her. So, yeah. ****. What the ****.